Is the myth that homosexuality is a choice perpetuated by BIPHOBIA from homosexuals and heterosexuals alike? Genuinely gay, gay guys might joke about having sex with Margaret Cho or some celebrity they identify with, but ultimately it would not happen. Likewise, most straight guys are horrified by the idea of going down on a dude or having anal sex. Ditto for straight girls and lesbians... But there's this missing element or argument. These people who say it's a choice... are they secretly bisexual?
2006-06-28 21:55:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I really do not have an answer to your question because it really depends on the person... some people would act one way or another but it does not necessarily reflect his or her sexuality... one thing I know for sure... I am gay not by choice... why would I choose a lifestyle that most people in our country do not accept...
2006-06-28 22:02:16 · answer #1 · answered by boo0726 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Bisexual is once you're attracted to both gender so it chilly be a lady liking a boy and a lady. Bisexual isn't once you imagine that being gay is a decision. gay and bisexual are diverse issues somewhat
2016-10-13 22:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am bisexual and I was born this way. I am sick and tired of this attitude from both the gay and the straight community. Gays constantly email me telling me to admit that I am a f@g and straights email me and tell me to stop my sinful ways. Many homosexuals have been excepting of my bisexuality just as many straights are. But I would expect some persecution from the straight community. I really didn't expect it from the gay community. It is almost enough to make me want to start my own community. Bisexuals of the world unite! LOL
2006-06-29 00:28:52 · answer #3 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
God knows I hope not! I'd seriously dislike (stay polite!) to be associated with them.
Besides, I think I spot a flaw in your supposition; that I'd elect to be involved in either a gay or straight relationship ...
...just because I'm attracted to both men and women doesn't mean that I'll "choose to be gay". I'd just have met a guy who I find really attractive.
The only choice I'd REALLY have is whether or not to chat him up.
2006-06-28 22:36:47 · answer #4 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMHO very little about sexuality is by choice. there are however trysexual people [ if its sex they'll try it] and that may be by choice. as long as it feels good they are up for it. bisexuals are sort of stuck in the middle but the evidence shows they are usually mostly homosexual in preference
2006-06-29 02:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by glen t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't diss bisexuals.
Born lesbian/gay, born straight, born bi. None of these are a choice.
2006-06-29 09:59:52 · answer #6 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im bisexual and I dont think its a choice
2006-06-28 22:46:24 · answer #7 · answered by Irish_bi_female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible they could be bisexual, maybe - try asking someone who thinks this way, however the only thing certain is they are misinformed.
2006-06-29 06:20:05 · answer #8 · answered by susan69me69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are gay, you were born that way.
2006-06-28 21:58:05 · answer #9 · answered by kayef57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-28 23:53:39 · answer #10 · answered by dick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋