I love to talk with people and make new friendships.....Online,in life......I am friendly person......I ask and answer here and find out lot of things,I never hear and have a chance to see it and know it.....
But.....I have a friend (we know each other more then 10 years) who ignore me-for a while......What ever I say or do he with some kind of irony tell it to people.....I turn out (become) a stupid one.....I don t mind that that mach,but some people who I know say what he doing,and tell that isn't right........I ask him what is his problem......But he ignores me.......Don t write me e-mail back,don t answering phone,or just write a SMS message......Nothing......
What can I do?
2006-06-28 21:46:59 · 15 answers · asked by Danica O 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I really love him like friend and really care for him......But obviously that is not what he thinking of me.....I have mistakes too....But if I see that mistakes and must to say I am sorry - I say that....We all are people and we all have mistakes,but if you see someone try to find out what is not OK and what is wrong in some relationship - he or she deserve answer.....Just say - I don t want to be your friend no more....And of story.....Tomorrow ,when he needs something,he will come and pretend nothing is wrong with us and - what about mine botheration?Like nothing was wrong.....Why am I bother at all about him.....
I don t want be used from him anymore....
2006-06-28 22:04:01 · update #1
Thanks all.......You all have good point of view....I never call him again.........
2006-06-29 21:52:50 · update #2
Avoid him... He obviously fancies you...
Maybe you should send one last message, that you know he is attracted to you and you are flattered, but he isn't your type... That should get a response...
But really, I would just avoid him in the future...
2006-06-28 21:50:30 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have childhood friends who do this to me as well and i too used to worry bout them seeming to ignore me but eventually realised that they were not ignoring me but instead we had all grown up a little more now and that things change as you get older, you meet other people, you go to college etc...
I then also realised that sometimes i do the same thing to them for the simple reason that i have matured since we were 8 and now have other friends and a job etc. that i have to spend time on and can not always just be in touch with the same people.
After al of that i cant help feeling that you feel something more for this bloke and if that is the case you need to decide whether or not your friendship will be affected if you tell him you have feelings for him. Good luck and keep cool.
2006-06-29 04:58:28 · answer #2 · answered by Rui C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like this guy is jealous because he wants you and you are making friends on the internet.He is too scared to tell you so he talks about you to make himself feel better.
2006-06-29 05:31:23 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First give him some time to sort himself he'll get back to you, just dont over wori about it. Best of luck.
2006-06-29 04:52:52 · answer #4 · answered by kiss me. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't bother ringing him and when he does come round wanting something would tell him where to go! if he bothers to ask what the problem is then tell him exactly how u feel!
2006-06-29 07:57:37 · answer #5 · answered by blondebirdcrazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not even waste my time on him. He is obviously an idiot towards you and you really dont need friends like that.
2006-06-29 05:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When parting it is right to part like matured persons. So make it memorable to him
2006-06-29 05:08:04 · answer #7 · answered by sudiptocool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could find better friends than that,move on and forget about him.
2006-06-29 05:35:55 · answer #8 · answered by Bob Mukonka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want to talk to you anymore..
*Drop the friendship
*Tell him how you feel in an E-mail.
*Call him & leave a voice mail.
This is what I'd do.
2006-06-29 04:52:46 · answer #9 · answered by inurface012391 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should start stop think and stopped contact him.... he knows u care so much and tht is sometimes not good.... he should fight about u and show caring ....so try tht way... things should become better very soon ;-)
good luck!!
2006-06-29 04:54:34 · answer #10 · answered by naina_k_s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play him at his own game. i mean he obviously dont wanna be your friend if he has cut you off.
2006-06-29 04:50:35 · answer #11 · answered by linsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋