Is it ever ok to...?

Question

Call a girl after she avoided picking up your calls many times if because you know you were meant to be together?

Answer 1

No. Its harrasment and she does not want you!!!

Answer 2

Well another case of tunnel vision strikes the young people out there. Is she the only girl in town? Can you not take a hint? Why not take a break and look yourself over---honestly answer this--are you date material? Are you a slob, a jerk, an idiot, a disrespectful person? Maybe there is a reason she ignores you. You had better ask yourself if anyone wants to be with you. I would bet a paycheck that your maturity level is lacking--it is evident because you are bordering on harrassment by trying too much. Don't assume at anytime that you and anybody were meant to be together. That's just silly. What happens when you meet someone that seems to be destined for you and you have to get rid of this other girl,....I want to be there for that episode. Get a grip, straighten up and be a man for God's sake. Stop being a pest and figure out if there is a reason why people don't want to talk to you. Watch what you say and do ---people will think you're weird. Good Luck and have courage.

Answer 3

Is it ever okay to call a girl repeatedly even though she's avoiding your calls?
Well, that would make you an obsessed stalker.
If she is avoiding your calls, you would do well to take the hint and leave her alone.
Because if she thought you two were meant to be together and had ANY feelings for you, she wouldn't be avoiding your calls.
So I think it's time for you to move on.

Here are your options:
#1. Stop using the phone.
#2. Ask yourself why you can't take no for an answer.
#3. Ask yourself if this is the first time that something like this has happened.
#4. Ask yourself if you think you are displaying stalker like qualities and would understand if she got a restraining order against you.
#5. Go to a self-esteem course/seminar and therapy/counselling.
#6. Get your sh*t together.
#7. Take a vacation....even if it's camping.
#8. Hang out with friends or family.
#9. Start dating and getting to know other people.

If it is hard for you to move on, remember that this kind of behaviour you are displaying makes girls want to take self defense/martial arts courses. Why? Because there are men out there, like you, that are unable to take no for an answer.
So unless you are ready to get your azz kicked, I'd suggest getting some help.
Cause your behaviour could get worse and more illogical and this is never a good thing.

You could follow my options.
If you ever make your own options, make sure you write them up with someone who knows about your obsessive nature and is there to edit and look over what you have written with a fine tooth comb.
Cause at this stage, you aren't thinking logically but rather illogically. And it would be a turn off for anybody.

Answer 4

It's okay to call her until she tells you to stop.
She shouldn't avoid your calls, she should tell you how she feels.
If she isn't willing to tell you, how can you know for sure? You're not psychic, are you?

I wouldn't suggest calling her every 5 minutes (or even every day, necessarily) but if she hasn't made her feelings known, then you should call and leave her messages every week or so, saying that you're thinking about her. Who knows, maybe one day your persistence will pay off.
If not, she can't press charges on you for harrassment if you're not being threatening and she hasn't told you to stop calling.

Of course, when she does tell you her feelings, she might be so annoyed that she really tells you off. But that's the risk you're taking by attempting to convince her of your feelings.

Answer 5

Hey , ur repeating the same question for 3 times on the same day , on different topic & an hour different. U must be mentally upset or u have mental illness.Better u take a treatment from a proffesional mental illness doctor b4 u suffer seriously!

Answer 6

it s clear that s she doesnt want o talk with u I dont know if she is angry or u both never been in a relationship and u trying to start one, in any case is better u respect her wishes, if she is not answering is because or either u hurt her feelings or made her angry in this case, have patient and wait till she get better,
or maybe she just doesnt like u, so search for another girl, that concept u have about,,meant to be together is just in ur mind, not real.

Answer 7

Well, while the final decision depends on you, you may want to remember that love bear all things.If possible check her out in her residence then discuss things over. You may also make the move to legalize your relationship fast to convince her that you are serious cause she might have lose faith in you and may start searching else where for real love.Call and settle all dispute if there is any. Be humble and admit your faults. we are humans and want to be treated fairly.

Answer 8

It's not O.K. If she wanted to speak with you she would contact you. If you keep insisting on calling all you will do is creep her out. So just leave her alone. TOTALLY !!!

Answer 9

you can't force a relationship...

if your calls are unwanted and left unreturned...get a clue.

whether you believe it was meant to be or not...it's still up to her to acknowledge that she agrees. If she doesn't, harassing her will only serve to turn her away.

Answer 10

well, if she doesnt return your calls u have two choices. u can wait for her in a dark parking lot and slit that bitches throat. or if your too much of a ***** to do that u could always **** her sister.

Answer 11

Can you say telephone harrasment, can you say stalking? Move on before she has you locked up for one or both of these actions!