2006-06-28 21:41:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
One time is a mistake.... More than once is a pattern... Forget it.
2006-06-28 21:44:14 · answer #1 · answered by barbaradjt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater. Trust is a hard thing to get back when your in a relation ship. And with out trust u have nothing . And the lying well parable never stop once a lire always a lire. But sooner are later all those lies and all the cheating well catch up to him one day
2006-06-29 05:17:24 · answer #2 · answered by traic c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are asking that question here shows that you have doubts - and wisely so. If several times this behaviour has occurred, I wonder why you are still with your spouse?
It is time to kick your spouse to the curb and move on and find someone who is true to you and you alone who will not lie.
You deserve better treatment than what you are getting so go out there and find that special someone.
Good Luck!
2006-06-29 04:46:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the reason why the lying and cheatting happened. Some spouses are geglected and abused, as a result the lying and cheating is just a result.
2006-06-29 04:44:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Key words here are: "SEVERAL TIMES"
What has he done to earn back your trust? Has he gone for counseling to address his behavior/issues? Has he benefited from counseling? Has he acknowledged he has a serious problem and needs help. Do you sense in your heart and soul that he's different now and do you see a consistent pattern of positive change?
If you are asking the question can you "still" trust him?... deep in your heart you probably don't. I'm sure you'd like to.. You should also explore getting Christian counseling for yourself. I'm quite sure you're going through a world of emotions that need to be addressed. You need to heal.
The red flag that's going off in your head should not be ignored. He has issues that he should be held accountable for and addressed. Trust is earned and not automatically given.
2006-06-29 12:37:12 · answer #5 · answered by 247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you ask my sister who is in the process of divorce after 24 years of marriage, she would say no. Her husband was guilty of a few affairs and lied to her many times to cover them up.
Unless you saw some amazing life change in your spouse, i.e. a religious conversion, then there's no reason to think her/his behavior will ever change.
2006-06-29 04:48:53 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Sierra Sun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly, assuming that he or she has promised not to do so again.
After several affairs, most people get the roaming spirit out of their systems and settle down. And, once they are comfortable in their marriages, they only tell the truth to their beloved ones.
Then, they get dressed and return home to the spouse.
2006-06-29 04:49:04 · answer #7 · answered by Goethe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
off course people make mistakes and she too can make a mistake of being trustworthy some time. If a constantly honest person can cheat occassionally, you constantly cheating wife may not cheat at times - just for a change - maybe!!
2006-06-29 04:44:22 · answer #8 · answered by Animated Dogma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. But u can also lie and cheat on her several times. That way u will be even.
2006-06-29 04:50:15 · answer #9 · answered by Abhilash C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!one time is enough they had their chance!you need to move on and find someone better!if you don't then they are just going to keep cheating on you. but if you really love this person then i suppose it's easier said than done.
2006-06-29 04:54:08 · answer #10 · answered by holley g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nop. Stop trusting him , be smart & don't be the victim of cheat.
If he truly loves u , he won't cheat u on any circumstances.
2006-06-29 06:54:37 · answer #11 · answered by Dolly_06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋