are there any reasons for a disappointed,lonely and distraught person to keep on living?

Answer 1

The thing about life is that it can change at a moments notice. One day everything is great and one split second it can all change for the worse. Just as fast it can all change for the better. No matter how bad or good things are the only thing you can count on is that it will change.

What is most frustrating is meeting somebody today who is really going to take you for who and what you are. We put up so many barriers today. By doing so we enter each relationship with a good bit of cynicism which tends to be a self fullilling prophacy. We expect the worst and often even subconciously seek out people we know will deliver the worst. This feeds our cynicism which becomes a vicious cycle. Age then robs us of our best lures after years of meaningless and or failed relationships. Each year getting harder and harder to stand up and try it again. Each year with a little less to lay on the table and say come look at me.

The good news is that this is just natures way of stripping you of false expectations. The emphisis on physical attributes rather than spiritual attributes. The inability to get that physical ideal being a door to meeting somebody who really is meant for you, but on the inside. Modern culture places far too heavy an emphisis on trivial attributes and far too little on the important.

The way out of the loop is to change where you are looking. Change your focus. Let go of some cherished ideals which when you really look at it are not all that important to happyness. Do this and you will see some things that really are important which have been waiting for you to acknowledge them all along. This doesn't mean your going to instantly meet the man/woman of your dreams. What it does mean is that you are now ABLE to find them. The blindness is lifted from your eyes. You can now begin your search with hope renewed. With a strong probability of success. When it all boils down to whether you are happy or not, if you are not in a repressive nation it really is a matter or who you are sharing that life with. Physical possessions are meaningless. Cliques, crowds, events, titles, they mean nothing if you are alone. Alone is what all of us are until we look deep into the mirror, see who we are without the garnish. Then look for someone with a spirit akin to our own.

For perspective it might help to go out and help somebody who is in a worse posisition than yourself. Sometimes we do not realize just how good we have things until we see somebody else's misery.

In the mean time it helps to talk. Your welcome to talk to me, I'm sure you'll find others equally able and willing to talk you through a bad time. After all we've all been there or will be at one time or another. If you are not willing to lend an ear at a time like this what right do you have to want an ear when you yourself go thorugh this?

Answer 2

Definately. There is no thing in this world that continues to exist without any reason.

Ultimately God creates Humans to fullfill a specific purpose and even if we sometimes may or maynot be able to understand the reason behind this, we must accept hte final truth that - There is a specific cause due to which we all are here, and will continue to be here.

Even a worthless stone has a reson for existance. Imagine if there were no stoes, how come we would have rocks, mountains, terrains, and so on.

Similarly, go and explore the world around you with a clear and positive attitude. I am sure that the world outside is waiting to welcome you with both hands open.

Good luck.

Answer 3

When you at the bottom of a mountain the task of climbing to the top understandably looks daunting and impossible.
Some people want to climb to the top, why? Because they need the challenge and want to see the view.
Others only plan to climb part ways up because that is satisfying enough for them and they are happy to glimpse the beautiful view from however far up they get.
For the rest, they prefer to visit the ancient monastery near the bottom of the mountain.

The choice everyone has to make is which path they want to take. You don't have to aim high, just the path that suits you. Whichever path you choose, take time to appreciate the things along the path, whether vast mountain ranges, or the daintiest flowers.

Answer 4

Reasons for living exist at every moment. and i am not talking about god necesseraly. i am saying that hoping for something better is a vital thing for most people. Now, why do you think that an individual at this bad emotional state, like you, doesnt have a reason to keep on living? Obviously, you dont have any kids, because if anyone has kids at any point of his/her life, then her strenght for life is enchanced. I suggest you seek for some professional help, if you continue feeling depressed. There's always hope and absolutely no reason for someone to end his life.

I hope i helped you even a little bit.

Answer 5

Yes, you may not be in such bad shape some day, lots of people have lifestyles they overcome, sometimes their lifestyle is not of their own choosing. hang in there, tommorrow is a new day . loneliness is only in your mind, you have a computer, how can you be lonely? reach out. you won't be lonely anymore, your avitar is female, you can have kids, that should help your lonliness a bit. but there are people that can be surrounded by others and still be lonely. so having people around may not help your state of depression. medication may be your only solution, if there is a chemical inbalance in your brain, all the chipper talk in the world will not help you. you gotta get medication. good luck.

Answer 6

Abraham Lincoln is famous for saying that "all things in time will pass"

If youre lonely or unhappy, consider 2 things. 1) eventually, this too shall pass.
2) instead of wallowing in sadness, figure out whats causing it and fix it. Search wikipedia for nihlism
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nihlism
Do you really want to think like they do?
find the reasons you enjoy life and concentrate on those

Answer 7

there is no person in this world who doesn't have a reason to live. in this case i guess loneliness and disappointment are the reasons u could live for sounds painful but that is the way life goes

Answer 8

Obviously there are otherwise you wouldn't be asking that question..
Probably you have given up... That's not quite the way to do things.. It's easy to give up and then the lonelyness blah blah blah gets worse and worse.
You have to look at all the good stuff.. It's there all the time, but you are having trouble seeing it.. So start by looking for the good stuff...

Answer 9

Yes, because I've been there, A year later I had 15 employees depending on me to pay them each week. Things change for the good just as often as they change towards the bad, we just remember the bad changes more because they are sometimes devistating. Live and Love!! Ron

Answer 10

Life is full of surprises. Today may just be the day when everything comes together and you find that perfect job, or meet someone who makes you laugh or who cares enough to be a friend and help you out of a rut.