Ok I know I'm weird but I feel guilty that I don't want my ex fiance back. She left me for another guy and it didn't work out for her and I don't want her back. Am I just being an Idiot .
2006-06-28 21:08:07 · 16 answers · asked by Big Buddha 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Whatever you do, don't go back to her out of guilt and obligation! Follow your heart -- there is a reason you don't want her back ....and I think you need to trust your intinct and just move on. You'd be an 'idiot' if you allowed guilt to create your future. Put yourself first and wait for a woman who adores you and would never dream of leaving you for another man. You are doing the right thing!! Follow your heart!!
Blessings
2006-06-28 21:17:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No you are not being an idiot. Believe me. At one time you loved or may still love your ex. However she left you for another man. Now that things have not worked out she thinks you are stupid enough to let it go. Where the guilt comes in is once you loved or as I said may still do. You don't want to see her unhappy but at the same time you don't want to take the chance for her to do it again.
So you are not weird and you are not an idiot. It's ok to feel guilty. Just don't dwell on it.
2006-06-29 04:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by crysmay1977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't feel guilty or an idiot your ex fiance should feel that way, she can't throw you and move to another and if it didn't work out come back to you. I know she has her reasons but if she's like that it doesn't' sound it will work out when you get married but if you love her then maybe you wanna take her back but it has consequence emotionally.
2006-06-29 04:18:27 · answer #3 · answered by WickeD_AngeL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a right not to feel guilty for not wanting you back after all she did leave you for another guy and she obviously didnt feel anything was wrong when she left so why should you want her back, she will most likely leave the guy she is with now for another one, so she was just saving you the trouble of dealing with any more hurt from her....
2006-06-29 04:12:47 · answer #4 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not being an idiot. If she left you once she will do it again. The only reason that she wants to get back with you is because it didn't work with the other duy.
2006-06-29 04:18:17 · answer #5 · answered by jj02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u're not being an idiot n in ur case, u shouldnt b wanting to have her back in ur life.. she left u for somebody else so y would u want her back??.. yeah k, may b things didnt work out between the two of u so just move on.. she has left u n there's nothing left to ponder bout it... just move on n look for somebody more worthy... u dont have to feel guilty that u dont want her back bcoz u're doing the right thing, thats quite reasonable...
2006-06-29 04:13:00 · answer #6 · answered by kanu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have nothing to feel guilty about,she made the mistake,not you.It will never work out with her.Deep down you know if you took her back she would do it again,she would just be with you until someone better came along.Dont back down,or you will be a fool.These guilty feelings have to go,if anyone should be guilty its her for leaving you.She is not worthy of your affection or guilt,you deserve better.take care
2006-06-29 04:13:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, why would you want someone back after they left you for someone else...?? she obviously felt like you weren't what she needed or couldn't give her what she wants or weren't good enough for her... so she left you for someone she thought would be a better choice and now that she knows she's wrong she wants you back. surely you know that she would probably do the same thing again if she finds someone else who she feels will be better suited for her... You have no reason to feel quilty about not wanting her back.. most people wouldn't want someone like that back in their lives.
2006-06-29 12:35:28 · answer #8 · answered by lady T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur a sweet guy. a people pleaser. but honey it doesnt work like that. dont feel guilty. ull ruin urself. get ur self a really nice new girl. God bless.
2006-06-29 04:28:04 · answer #9 · answered by tobeornottobe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, unless you really are an idiot. She treats you as back-up.
2006-06-29 04:14:04 · answer #10 · answered by PunkGreen1829 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋