Would you ever have sex whilst your parents were in the house?

Question

cos i did and my mum wants me to move out, i'm 17, what do you think?

she only found out cos she read my diary

Answer 1

I think you need to accept your mum's wishes and not let her know what you've been doing again. If she doesn't know, it won't hurt her, but if you want to keep living there you unfortunately need to understand that she can make this sort of decision - acceptable or not.

Answer 2

When I got with my fiance I was still living at home, he used to stay over nearly every night and we'd have sex. however I was 21!
I think if my daughter was 17 and she was having sex, I wouldnt be happy but atleast your in the house! You could be in some car somewhere or in an alleyway. Speak to your mum and let her know that you are being responsible, that your using condoms (which i truely hope u are!) and that you wish to be treated like an adult.

Hopefully she will agree with the comments I made. Otherwise Im afraid she can kick you out, its her house, and her rules im afraid! Good luck.

Answer 3

Well I use to when I was younger. I remember one time my mom walking in on me and a guy she laughed and said carry on. My mom and I still laugh about it to this day. She can't believe she said it and well neither can I. But now my mom lives with me and I would never think on having sex with her in my house. I think something got screwed up in my head. When I was younger it was ok to have sex in her house but now that she lives with me it is not ok. Of course those are my thoughts not hers. She wouldn't care what I did as long as I did not hurt anyone or them hurt me.
But me being a mom now if my son was 17 and believed he had to have sex. I would much rather him have sex somewhere safe and at home then on the streets somewhere.
Just next time don't keep a diary of it. It probably stunned her she probably didn't even know that you were sexually active and when she read it she was hurt. One because her baby wasn't a virgin anymore and two because you did it in her house.
Sit down and talk to her. Be understanding of her point of view and just don't have sex in her house anymore.

Answer 4

If your folks don't want you having sex in their house then that's something you have to respect! Having sex whie they're still in is just stupid (unless you iked the excitement of possibly being caught??) - especially if you were aware of their wishes!

Your folks are still legally responsible until your 18 (commenting on what some one elee has said), but if you can't live by the 'rules' , then you'll have to move out.

If the sex is with the 'right' person, then go for it - move out, grow up, have lots of sex and earn a living. If it's just sex, you'll have plently of time to have that .... and other things your folks wouldn't want you to be doing in their house.

I went to Uni and did most of the stuff my folks wouldn't want in their house but still had to stick to their rules when I came home for the summer etc. I didn't have a girl sleep over until I met the girl I got engaged to.

I don't think parents like the idea of their little kids having sex but as we all grow up they lose control of what they can make us do & not do. By maintaining control in their own home, they feel more in control & not just as a by-stander watching their child grow-up and possibly making some painful mistakes.

If you had a flat, would you like your folks to have sex in the spare room while you were watching TV - unable to hear the plot of the film because your dads head is banging on the wall ......... Uuuurgh!

Enough said!






She read you diary ........ a tad different then. You both need to sit down and appologise for upsetting each other but she can't expect you to move out because of something she read in your diary. You were a tad wrong for having sex in her house and she was definately wrong for reading your diary - the 2 cancel each other out (unless you had sex in her bed or something like that).
Find some common groumd - you'll not have anymore house sex and she'll neve read your diary again.

Answer 5

I did loads when i was younger although you have to be quiet. I think your moms over reacting slightly. Did you say she read your diary well if she did thats not on is it. My son is 16 honestly id rather he did it under my roof than in a alley or something. You did nothing wrong, i hope it works out ok x x

Answer 6

she is so right, this is her house and this is her rules. as long as you still live at her house you should listen to what she says. Ask your self, 17 years old is so young? can you take the responsibility of your child if you have had one due to this sex? if you can take care of your baby, then you can have a sex? but your mother does not want you to leave the house as much she wants to let you know that it is not easy to have a child in this early age. your mother is not bad, just listen to her and bear her and she loves you! don't listen to other answers,please! bec the day you get in troubles no one....I mean no one will be around you beside your mother. sex is a desire but mother is real.

Answer 7

Yes, but only with a lock on my door and very quietly. If you're 17, she can't force you to move out, but if "no sex" is a rule, you probably want to abide by it because mothers can make your life hell.

Answer 8

I think you showed disrespect for your parents feelings and the family rules. You probably do in other ways too and your mum thinks it's time you learnt what being an adult is like.

Answer 9

I've had sex while someone elses parents were in the house... ;)

You are 17??? And she wants you out for having sex??? Bit drastic!!! She is over-reacting about something...

Are you male or female???

Answer 10

no, I wouldn't, because I'd get caught instantly. If you were that stupid, yeah I'd move out and find somewhere to live until you graduate high school. But I would try to talk to them first. If that doesn't work, move in with a friend, and when they've calmed down, try again.