It's hard to not get attatched when I get excited about a lover, what do I do to calm myself down?
2006-06-28 20:41:02 · 8 answers · asked by Caasi 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Just do it, or risk losing him or her. Make it a point to let her up for air once in a while.. Make it a point to not go over there every day. Woman need their space whether they realize it or not. Woman like to miss their men. Men like a chance to hang with the guys.... Let them be themselves. Don't swallow all of their time up, or they will feel like they have lost their individuality. Everything is good with moderation. Go find yourself a hobby that you can get into. Spend that time at least once or twice a week doing that. But make sure you tell that lover that you have a hobby, and welcome them to come and partake anytime they would like.. If they don't feel like they are pressured into doing things...then they will feel much better about doing them.
Good luck
2006-06-28 20:48:28 · answer #1 · answered by barbaradjt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be as clingy as you probably are but what controlled me from not being so clingy was not seeing him so much...like 2 times a week or maybe 1 a week. But I was going to school 40 hours a week on top of that I was at school so I was occupied like crazy. See if that works.
2006-06-29 03:45:05 · answer #2 · answered by MedStudent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with being excited but do try to keep an open mind especially with someone you have just met. Leave a little space in your heart to deal with the unexpected which has a way of popping up and ruining peoples lives because they cant deal with it because they were too much in love and became blind.
2006-06-29 03:49:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have 3 or 4 at one time.
2006-06-29 03:45:08 · answer #4 · answered by Destiny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray. Let go of your need to control. Be excited, and allow the relationship be what it's going to be. Trust God or the universe and see what happens.
2006-06-29 03:47:19 · answer #5 · answered by peacefulnativeangeleno 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to pace yourself by giving yourself small goals each day. For example, you won't call or page him today.
2006-06-29 03:45:41 · answer #6 · answered by GOUTVOLS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you avoid being CLINGY?
Use Bounce dryer sheets.
2006-07-05 01:05:20 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find one that doesn't mind being clung to. Seems simple enough.
2006-06-29 03:44:59 · answer #8 · answered by quntmphys238 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋