I sent my bf, who is living far from me, an email that I agreed to continue being couple after some "breaking up" problems we had. Then, I haven't got his reply for two weeks. I want to ask u:
- what does he mean from his silence if he got my mail? I am not sure he got my email already.
- what should I do? send another mail or wait ? What to say in the next email?
some more hints:
- his business is becoming so bad. But i didnt't know it earlier.
- I don't think I should call him.
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2006-06-28 20:35:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think you should give him some time, he might be working and busy or might be in trouble. And if he doesn't reply you after a certain time then go and contact him in anyway possible, he might need your help. Don't you know anyone else who lives closer to him then you.
2006-06-28 20:41:47 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know what would be the answer because you know him that much than we do but try to send another mail.. maybe he wasnt able to read the mail or maybe he just disregard the mail and didnt replied because of the content of the mail... but its better if you are going to call and just ask if he was able to recieve the mail that you sent,then if he says yes then just drop the phone. Its better if you talk to him than just email him.. lets set things straight.what if you are that person, you just recieved a mail- a break up mail what would you do? if he done something stupid that you cant accept it then email is just fine esp. the reason for break up is 3rd party.
2006-06-29 03:44:02 · answer #2 · answered by icon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys need to talk one way or another. There's no point in fretting over it if he doesn't want to be in the relationship. I think you should call him, after all, he IS your boyfriend [well, hopefully]. Emails aren't that personal, and things can get confused or misread. Call him, it's at least worth a try.
Ask if he got your email, let him know you are worried about him, how he's doing etc. Ask if there's anything you can do to help him. Just talk.
2006-06-29 03:39:20 · answer #3 · answered by thisfleshavenged 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does he mean from his silence if he got my mail?
**If he has not returned you email I would say that you got your answer~he does not want to be together.
- what should I do? send another mail or wait ? What to say in the next email?
** DO NOT SEND ANOTHER EMAIL. He is obvious trying to telling you that he does not want to be with you. If he wanted to be with you he would call you, email you, come see you, write you a letter, text message you, etc.
I personally think you should move on with your life. Stop wasting time with this loser. If he wanted to be with you he would be. He would find a way to contact you but he hasn't.
2006-06-29 03:43:17 · answer #4 · answered by jj02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should send an email asking if he got the other you sent... he may not have. Tell him nicely that you are concerned he isn't recieving your email... and that if you dont hear from him, you are going to assume he isnt getting them and will call him. You deserve at least a reply. Good luck!
2006-06-29 03:42:33 · answer #5 · answered by Brandy A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call him and find out if he got the e-mail or maybe he is not feeling well, cuz that is the only way you will know. If he got it, ask him the reason to why he didn't reply and you'll know what to do.
2006-06-29 03:45:02 · answer #6 · answered by marjorie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I am not good in advice :P
but, maybe you need to give him more time..
email, has some problem, maybe you sent it to him, but, his email address automatically set your email into bulk mail or something... you know, technical things..
sent him another email will be good, and maybe you should make yourself sure about his address
well, a man life is career and love... usualy it related one to another... so, when his career in a bad situation, his love will automatically goes down as well.. but, if you can help him with his "love" side, let's hope for an U-turn with his career :)
bless you :)
2006-06-29 03:42:47 · answer #7 · answered by wilsonboncu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay sweetie calm down we all have these confusing issues its all good just give your self some time on what to do .. i dont want to ruin ur hope but never assume things bc those are the worst i know ur desperate to know what the hell he has been doing that he has been so busy not to reply but still ... think throughtoutly what to email him and what not to send to him . its always good to think it through call him and ask him ...
2006-06-29 03:59:13 · answer #8 · answered by elrayesnora 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definately contact him again theres probably a really simple reason he hasnt gotten back to you!
guys can get on with things while we conjur up all sorts of yukky things in our head theyre quite simply busy or distracted.
email him again and say youve been thinking bout him and wanted to let him know and whats he been up to etc, dont get too deep tho!
2006-06-29 03:44:21 · answer #9 · answered by mycarbenni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be little more clear as to what is your problem? Have you got married meanwhile that he became silent, and you want to revive the relationship?
2006-06-29 03:39:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋