I know this guy, and we used to mess around a lot...then he moved in with my roomie's friends so we were constantly around each other and we didnt want everyone to know our secret so we just stopped talking and messing around. But recently he's been talking to me a lot...is it possible to just be friends with someone you've already been with? Or will it always end up in bed?
2006-06-28 20:15:09 · 8 answers · asked by Virginia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Heres the deal with the guy...I liked him, and he liked me and we did our thing. But instead of turning it into a relationship we just turned it into casual sex. Now I have a boyfriend who I am completely in love with, and would never cheat on. And as much as I want to be friends with the booty call guy, I'm scared something will happen to mess up my current relationship. So I dunno if I should try and be friends with him or just forget about it
2006-06-28 20:25:11 · update #1
It's possible as long as neither one of you want a sexual relationship. Could build a stronger bond or could make things really difficult. I say you should go with how you really feel about it. A lot of people couldn't be friends after something like that, but if the both of you are mature about it, then I say go for it. Good luck.
2006-06-28 20:18:36 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might start a little more difficult than a regular friendship, but it is /possible/.
It depends on the booty call...if he is honestly interested in being a friend again...or just another booty call.
It also depends how much you trust yourself. If you think you can handle a friendship with the 'booty call guy' without slipping up and without letting him get anywhere with you in case he happens to slip up...then I say, go for it.
It might be a little dishonest to keep it a secret from your current boyfriend though. If you can handle the secret, then that's fine..but you don't want it eating away at you later. :)
2006-06-29 03:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by xxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can do it without expecting a serious relationship, go for it but personally I have feelings for someone I am having sexual relations with.
2006-06-29 03:20:00 · answer #3 · answered by amissybell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get another boyfriend and fool around with him so that there is no temptation with your "now friends" friend.
2006-06-29 03:19:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup...
it's possible....and there's still the possibility that you'll end up in bed unless you work to not let that happen.
2006-06-29 03:19:27 · answer #5 · answered by Warrior 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what exactly is a booty call?
seriously, l have no idea
2006-06-29 03:18:33 · answer #6 · answered by Plum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you can be adults bout the past then obvcourse you can still be freinds.
2006-06-29 03:21:44 · answer #7 · answered by karolinaballer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes... but you will never get into a rrealtionship that way
2006-06-29 03:18:36 · answer #8 · answered by lyssa_t2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋