i hate the familyn of my boyfriend because he love them so much.please give me a advice to this.thank you.
2006-06-28 20:06:11 · 7 answers · asked by liza 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Books & Authors
There's more to this story. Otherwise, it would seem to me to be totally backwards. You love him. You know that he loves his family. Therefore, it seems you should love them, too. Why don't you? Do they hate you? Do they disapprove of your relationship with him? Do they seem to you to be rivals for his attention, his time, etc.?
Is the problem that you two are not married? It seems whatever the problem is, you have not told us enough to be able to help you.
2006-06-28 20:12:56 · answer #1 · answered by auntb93again 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What?? are you jealous of your boyfriend's family?? You need to get over that...right now. This will be a problem from now on with any boyfriend if you don't get over it. You must understand that family is very important to a lot of people, and yes blood is thicker than water. So why is it so wrong that your boyfriend loves his family? Just remember one thing, if the two of you decide to get married, then his family becomes your family too, and that is something you need to decide if you can handle.
2006-06-28 20:11:43 · answer #2 · answered by asmul8ed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Liza to me in my experenices in the past a man with a good loving family usally means a good man they know love so they give love and if you cant get along with his family it will always cause problems try to get to know them if you just hate them with a passion move on Peace Out
2006-06-28 20:17:48 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly you've heard 'blood is thicker than water'? You CANNOT compete with blood my friend. His love for his family will always be and you can't change that, don't even try to! If you really love him, you will need to learn to accept his family because if you can't, there is no point to your relationship. Much luck.
2006-06-28 20:11:07 · answer #4 · answered by Italy323 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should love him because he is able to love this much... however, if you are this jealous then you don't love him as much as you may think...You better go while the going is good. You don't really love him... You better realize this before you mess up your life and an innocent child's!
2006-06-28 20:14:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore em. dont show your hateness in front of your bf, becos then he'll unconciously show his loves to them. pretend that you like his family. just try to be nice. but try to avoid encountering them.
2006-06-28 20:17:33 · answer #6 · answered by anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are doomed -- it's best to get out of the relationship. if you can't get along, then it will always be that way, especially if he keeps putting them before you.
2006-06-28 22:54:03 · answer #7 · answered by WVMagpie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋