What would you do if someone accuses you wrongly?

Answer 1

I have taken this attitude for a long time. I know I did not do what they accused me 0f also God knows the truth and that is all that matters.

Answer 2

Being accused wrongly is like being in a nightmare. It really depends though, who accuses you...if it's someone who seems to be obvious about not being fond of you, then one could care less...ignoring it is sometimes better. It's a different story, though, if it's someone who should know you better...that can really be very upsetting....one so-called friend of mine verbally attacked me right in front of other people seven years ago ...I was shocked by the words that came out of her mouth...she was pregnant with a big belly...and she dared to be in my face while talking nonsense (hormones I guess- but in this case she was getting back at me about something)! She said that I was talking bad about her and that I was taking her friends away. I told her to back off and that I didn't want anything to do with her. The next day- after a long sleepless night, I gave her a call, but our husbands talked to each other at first to mediate between us. My goal was for her to realize how wrongly she accused me and to apologize. She was very apologetic indeed and said that she was totally out of line....asked how she could make amends. I told her to say in front of everyone who were present, when she publicly accused me, that everything she said was wrong. She attempted to do so the following day....but only two were present instead of the fifteen or so parents that heard her accusations. She sat next to me and continued to be apologetic...but I just couldn't smile at her anymore...we never ever saw each other again. I was utterly disappointed in her...most of all because up to that point all I ever did was help her out in many, many situations (I watched her kids, gave her rides, ..etc.)... I think she started having a grudge when I told her at one point that I couldn't tolerate having me pick her up and her not providing a car seat for her kid. She would put her kid on her lap while she was very pregnant (8 months). I told her straight up that I was very concerned about her, the toddler on her lap and the baby in her belly. When she accused me though and blocked my way....it took me a lot of strength to remind myself, that if I gave her my special jab- cross,...the chances of her giving birth right there in front of me, would have been very high. So here's my advice: no matter how mad you are (hormones or no hormones- by the way - I was three months pregnant, too) ...make sure whatever you say or do, will not make matters worst for yourself. Just get an apology from that person and then adios, sayonara...good-bye forever!

Answer 3

If someone accused me wrongly I would confront the person and try to explain why they were wrong about whatever they accused me of.....See, hun, then it is out of your hands and you tried ot make amends......

Answer 4

Used to....Try to tell them what really happened. Explain myself and hope the other person understands. Usually though, that doesn't work. Seems like people usually want to believe the worst about everyone. Now ....... If I think it will make a difference I try to explain myself, but if I know it won't then I let it go. If it's not someone important to me, then I can't let how they think ruin my life for even one second.

Answer 5

just prove to them that they are wrong and move on with your life. you don't need these kind of people around you.
my brother and cousins did that to me about a year ago. and in a very casual manner, i proved them wrong. and tried to be quiet after the insident. after a few months, my brother called me up and apologized, and my cousins organized a family reunion at the beach and there they too apologized. it was great and i earned their respect which i have longed for for so many years.

Answer 6

juz tell he/she straight in the face tat he/she had accused u wrongly.

Answer 7

of a crime? or of your behaviour? a simple argument?

I'd say keep your damn insecurities to yourself and get your facts straight.
i HATE accusation with no foundation

Answer 8

talk to that person nicely n give proof that he/she's been wrong

if it doesnt work then u shld accuse him/her back with something more mean

Answer 9

Treat them like a mad dog and just walk away.

Answer 10

Tough question, in my case i could do nothing and spent a year in jail.