i dont get it ..?

Question

im 15, 5'8 and i wear a size 12-14 jean size, i have brown hair and green eyes, and all of my friends have had or have boyfriends but i havent even had a first kiss yet..

is there something wrong with me? or how could i get a bf? =(

Answer 1

You failed to mention anything about your personality. Looks are great but if YOU suck as a person then who cares about your looks. Also, don't be so egocentric. Have you considered that maybe the guys around you aren't a good match for you and that your friends might be compromising alot to tolerate the boys you all interact with.

Answer 2

There's nothing wrong with not even having a first kiss at age 15. I didn't have my fist kiss until I was 17 or 18....and I'm no old timer; I turn 21 this Sunday (whoo!!!). If there's one thing I learned about kissing, and boyfriends, and all of that stuff; most of it seems to happen because everyone else is doing it. So don't rush into anything or it's likely that you'll regret it.

But if I have some good general advice:
Don't be afraid to pick out a good one and start up a conversation. What's the worst that could happen? Almost everyone fears rejection so putting yourself out there is the tough part. All you really need, in my opinion, is courage and confidence. Sounds easy, yeah...but if you ever get turned down, dust yourself off and try, try again. There's plenty of guys out there for everyone! Really, there is...sometimes, too many.

Answer 3

No there is nothing wrong with that. Speaking from experience I never dated in high school and I can honestly say I am now better off for it. It is hard to see when you are younger but the drama of high school is hardly an ideal place to develop a lasting and loving relationship for the simple fact that everyone there is still growing. Before entering any relationship it is crucially important that you are not trying to find your identity through that other person or through being in a relationship. That tends to be a death blow to the relationship from the start.

My own story: Like I said, I never dated in high school but it wasn't until college that I was able to really stretch myself and find my own personal identity outside the small high school social word. If it wasn't for this time of growth I would have not even been prepared for when the woman I ended up falling in love with actually did come along (she is also my best friend which tends to be the backbone of our relationship). So I guess my advice to you would be is don't ever rush any relationship but let things develop in their own time.

Answer 4

There is NOTHING wrong with you. Everyone has relationships at all different times in their life. Just because someone jumps off a building, doesn't mean you have to do the same. Let life take shape on it's own. It will happen with patience. You have lots of time. I was 18 when I had my first kiss. Don't worry. Same with sex. NEVER RUSH IT. Wait until you're married, even if it means waiting until you're 40. i'd have more respect for my partner who waited until 40 then someone who has lost their virginity to someone else. To me, that's a true romantic...

Answer 5

Develop a personality and stop obsessing over your looks and jean size. Believe it or not, most guys are just looking for somebody to listen to them and be a friend. Relationships should start as friendships that blossom into something more. Cultivate your relationships with the guys you know and get comfortably just conversing with them and then you'll realize that it isn't all about flirting and being somebody you're not just for attention. Good luck, hon.

Answer 6

There is nothing wrong with you, not at all. Many people your age rush to getting a boyfriend, and for what? I don't know. It isn't that important right now. Get comfortable with yourself and this will happen for you. It may take more time, but in the mean time, take good care of yourself, so that when you do meet someone you are interested in, you can focus having a good relationship without losing yourself in it.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

Most boys your age are afraid that their friends might make fun of them, so they won't be brave and take a chance that someone might call their GF "fat." They are SO STUPID that they all think that fat is the worst thing that a girl can be. And even if they don't think that way, then they'll pretend to go along with it.

When I was you age, I had a 40" hip measurement (along with a 24" waist--I wasn't fat, except for my butt), and boys would date me, but they'd take me out of town so that they wouldn't be seen with me by their friends. Needless to say, I picked up right away on what they were doing and why they were doing it, and I wouldn't stand for it. Because I didn't want to put up with this sort of put-down, I didn't have many BFs when I was a kid.

Answer 9

Don't worry your still young. I did'in have a real boyfriend and kiss untill i was 16 everything takes is time your a butterfly but no one has notice that you have beautifull colors that dosent stop the butterfly from flying free now does it. Trust me it will take time i am 18 years old and i now that everything comes when it suppuos to.

Answer 10

My God, your only 15 and never been kissed. Baby, you will look back one day and wish you never had those screaming kids around your ankles and you will wish that you were still 15 and realise how naive you were.Get out and enjoy your life while you are still young and that doesn't have to involve boys.