He broke up with me for the second time and I still love him. I am now thinking about his brother, who shows nothing but interest in me. It feels wrong to consider this, and if it is right, how can I shake the feeling that something might happen again between me and my ex? Help!
2006-06-28 18:26:23 · 9 answers · asked by Caasi 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I could quite possibly just be a bit voulnerable right now.
But I kinda take interest in his brother too.
2006-06-28 18:40:57 · update #1
see u on springer
2006-06-28 18:29:47 · answer #1 · answered by ☼Jims Brain☼ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely agree with Scavenger_Meat. If you attempt a relationship with his brother, not only will it ruin their relationship as brothers, but what good would that do you? Dating an ex's sibling is going to be a permanent reminder that HIS brother broke your heart. Eventually, you would have to see his brother again if you were ever to go to his house to watch a movie or something of the sort. When things with one sibling don't work out, don't move down the family tree!
The only thing you can do right now is give yourself some good old-fashioned time. Do things that make you happy, and keep yourself busy. Pamper yourself and take a relaxing bath, or get out and do some jogging! Take up a new and exciting hobby, or perfect your skills on an old hobby. It will make you feel better about YOURSELF and give you time to move on from your ex. I wish you all the luck in the world!
2006-06-28 19:04:14 · answer #2 · answered by LeeAnn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go for the brother. It will tear the two of them apart. It will always be a reminder, as well.
Also, don't ever return to your ex. There is obviously no trust. You can have all the love in the world, but with no trust, there's no friendship, because that's what it takes to be friends .. trust.
With no friendship, there's no point because your significant other should be your best friend, your confidant, your everything.
2006-06-28 18:33:08 · answer #3 · answered by scavenger_meat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you shouldnt jump into another relationship that quickly because most likely the new relationship will not work out because you were just using him to get over your ex bf. The only thing that can help you get over your bf is time, and it could take along time..but dont rush into anything so soon, especially his brother
2006-06-28 18:31:40 · answer #4 · answered by melissa r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and find a hobby. Learn crochet, or something and stop spending so much time with either one of these guys.If what you're considering feels wrong, then don't do it and leave the old bf alone.
your bf's brother may be interested in you JUST because you were dating his brother, and that could get ugly.
2006-06-28 18:31:37 · answer #5 · answered by blkrose65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not date his brother. That would be wrong and classify you as a whore.
Get over your ex by taking things one day at a time and keeping in mind that things aren't going to be easy.
2006-06-28 18:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You get over someone with time.
Give yourself all the time and space you need.
Do not date his brother... they were raised by the same woman, they have the same basic beliefs.
Besides its wrong... and it can make for some strange holiday get togethers.
Ex: "Hey bro, how's the sex"
Brother: "you should know!"
2006-07-03 11:22:54 · answer #7 · answered by lookiehere...000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't date his brother just have SEX with him to get even!
2006-06-28 18:31:26 · answer #8 · answered by czar2k4ever 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, its wrong. On top of that, it will not help you forget your ex-boyfriend.
2006-06-28 18:29:57 · answer #9 · answered by Batmen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋