the only reason i ask is cuz once in a while he well make these comments when it comes to me wanting sex and him not wanting to (happins WAAAYYYY 2 often) about me finding someone just to do the "job". I mean I love it, I want it all the time, or atleast once a day and I'm lucky if I get it twice a week. Both of us a still young, me in my early 20's and him early 30's. I DONT KNOW. HELP
2006-06-28 17:44:59 · 21 answers · asked by hotshit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell him you need more sex... If he doesn't take care of business then tell him you are no longer want to be exclusive.
Be prepared to be dumped or for him to find a 'Friend with benefits' even though he frequently doesn't want sex with you...
Something to think about though is if you really love him, isn't 2x a week enough? Perhaps you could use a toy when you need more stimulation... or perhaps he could use it on you instead of having to perform daily...
The other thing to think about is why doesn't he want as much sex as you? Perhaps you are not compatible enough to make it work in the long haul...
Or perhaps, he is one of those guys that is good with being a cuck0ld... see http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=cuckhold for definition
You really need to think about all of this before approaching him on the topic...
Best Wishes..
2006-06-28 17:46:04 · answer #1 · answered by Nitrox Frogy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it were me, i'd tell him to make up his recommendations. he won't be able to have his cake and eat it too, excuse the pun. An "open" courting is only a fashion for him to play round and not in any respect experience to blame about it, If he loves you, he might want to no longer ought to pass sleep round or date human beings to verify once you're the single he needs. If he needs you than which will be it. you want to take your time and picture about this, or you would possibly want to finally end up with a damaged heart, and thats no the position you want to be by the sounds of it. talk with him about it no matter if he likes it or no longer, you do not ought to yell and scream. purely locate out why he needs it this manner. If he don't have a valid reason, kick him to the cut back. There are way extra efficient men accessible. desire this permits. KC
2016-11-29 23:03:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what, he is not young for you anymore, supposedly he is past his prime, and you are going to get hornier until you're in your late 30s, and come on he is on his early 30s he should be banging you at least 4 times a week, AT LEAST..... I've been married for 3 months now but with my wife for 6 years I'm 29 and I still bang her like we just met, leave him get another guy you're too young to be in a serious relationship anyway
2006-06-28 17:51:46 · answer #3 · answered by mat_vvv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could start by saying "I don't care about having a healthy relationship, and I hope you're not a jealous person...."
If you're not happy in the relationship, leave the relationship. Maybe I'm old-fashioned or close-minded, but something like sex-drive isn't going to change. You either have to accept it, and be commited to the relationship, or you have to end the relationship and find someone else. Sharing never goes over well.
2006-06-28 17:47:24 · answer #4 · answered by writingnerd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats pretty bad. From experience Ill tell you you need to move on. If your needs cannot be met by him its better to easily break off now and then move away all together over the summer. Tell him you need your space or something and he'll get the hint.
2006-06-28 17:48:26 · answer #5 · answered by kevine326 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just ask him if he was serious when he made these comments. If yes then go for it (safe sex, obviously). If not, tell him then that the relationship doesn't satisfy you as far as sex is concerned and that he has to do some efforts otherwise, you'll just dump him.
I wish I had a woman like you. Your BF doesn't know what he's got, Duh!
2006-06-28 18:02:00 · answer #6 · answered by Steaming emotions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this prob with my boyfriend, now hubby. I can tell you by looking back, there is something wrong with him. If he doesn't want sex more than that, there is a problem. If he won't tell you what it is so you guys can work on it, then you should just leave him permanently. My hubby got out of that and we worked through it.
2006-06-28 17:47:58 · answer #7 · answered by qtee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should analyze your relationship: do you really love this guy or are u in the relationship just for sex? r u only happy when u guys have sex? if so, then maybe this isnt the guy for you. maybe you should think about taking a break from the relationship to see if hes really the one for you.
2006-06-28 17:51:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have some serious commitment issues. If you have the gall to ask him that question then you better be ready for a bad break-up.
2006-06-28 17:52:02 · answer #9 · answered by jim w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what kind of guy he is. if he is somewhat protective and jealous, i wouldnt recommend it. but if seems like the type to be ok with it, tell him. he could be just saying that as a joke. if he's being serious, next time he says it, be like "seriously? can i?" and see his reaction. if its good, knock yourself out and have fun haha if its bad, i dont know
2006-06-28 17:49:17 · answer #10 · answered by mozartrox811 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋