I found out that the reason my dad and step-mom are fighting is because my dad was cheating. He told me that if I had any questions, I could talk to him about it, but I'm not so sure. I don't like confrontation. SHould I tell him or not? If so, how can I do it without him confronting me about it or anything?
2006-06-28 17:20:33 · 5 answers · asked by Paige 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My step-grandma told me, but told me not to tell them.
2006-06-28 17:27:48 · update #1
Ask him. You need to learn to get over your fear of confrontation and family is the best place to start, not to mention honing up on communication skills. Maybe he needs someone who loves him to communicate with as well.
2006-06-28 17:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by Mandalawind 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how did you find out that he was cheating in the first place? If it was like something bad, like eavesdropping on a phone call or something, it may be bad if he confronts you about it. But I do think you should tell him though.
Well, if she told you not to tell, then don't. Just ask him about it without confronting him.
2006-06-29 00:25:24 · answer #2 · answered by čŖåŻęĤ! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you want to know whats going on you should go and talk to your dad. You aren't "confronting" him about anything - he told you to talk to him if you had questions, so just tell him that you do have some questions you would like answered.
2006-06-29 00:24:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello there well lets see here?Pops,hopin he has learned the errors of his ways and is tryin to recapture the trust that has been lost?with mom?i would ask,not just in front of him but both expressing how you feel and relations aren,t perfect though having to deal with weakness like such?see at this point maine thing?Lack of communication?mom and dad!a cute way ,a family sit down?explain the rules no gettin upset,walking out of the room etc?regarding how you feel,and express yourself to them both?a muture way of handleing grown folks probs?and hopefully will show how much you are becomin and adult?Yes tell him with heart felt !but i,d have them both present?even if can,t talk to him?or like parents like child?Lack of Communication!it starts in the home!
2006-06-29 00:44:45 · answer #4 · answered by sheena s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. He needs to let you in. It's not like he has never ?'d u b4.
2006-06-29 00:23:40 · answer #5 · answered by rapidschick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋