I've been with my boyfriend for almost three years and for the first year he cheated on me with his ex for two months than the second year he cheated again for two months with his ex... really i completely lost my trust on him. but this year so far i havent catch him and he said that he hasnt and he has show it but is the third time a lucky charmed or not? this year he always had been with me and always say he loves me and that he will never do it again and that his sorry and to forgetthe past that we are staring a new year. and he being crying for a forgiveness and to trust him again that he wont mess up again. in my point of view i dont believe him but i say that next there wont be a next time and that pay back is a ***** but in your point of view what would you do?
2006-06-28 17:10:09 · 7 answers · asked by Love Land 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
I had to answer this.................if you took him back you are agreeing to forgive and forget, I was in a relationship like this for 4 years needless to say it was a disaster, I forgave, but I didn't forget! That's the key...............don't try to make him pay for the past, things happen sometimes and I'm sure it had nothing to do with you personally, you obviously care for him very much or you wouldn't have taken him back, he obviously cares for you too or he'd be with someone else...............you have to kind of take it that way and make the best of a bad situation, I'm not saying be an idiot, if things don't change and you feel like the relationship is not what you need bounce on him..........................but from what you're saying he recognizes what he did and that it hurt you, thats a good sign.....................however if you don't believe him, and feel like you can't trust him that's different, trust plays a key role in a relationship, once the trust leaves there's not much left but the physical, people but don't know but trust comes from the heart so................................if you really feel you can't believe him...............the trust is lost and you need to move on, it's sad but it's true, and it's his bad because he brought your heart to this point.....................and it will never be the same.............too long hunh? haha
2006-06-28 17:38:59 · answer #1 · answered by Trackboyz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with what everyone is saying..once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater!! You can do better than him, you ARE WORTH MORE THAN THAT. He obviously doesn't care enough about you because he's cheated on you before, why wait for him to do it again?? You deserve someone you can fully trust & who will never do things like that to you. I say get rid on him!!!
2006-06-29 01:18:27 · answer #2 · answered by Sedona Sunrise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONCE A CHEATER, ALWAYS A CHEATER. Believe me, honey, he's going to keep doing it. I took mine back too, biggest mistake ever(not together now, thank god). Save yourself the heartache and find a real man. I know you want to believe that he'll be faithful because he tells you he will, but have more respect for yourself than that. Leave that dog.
2006-06-29 00:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater, always a cheater but if u want to forgive and forget
2006-06-29 00:13:03 · answer #4 · answered by Hello_Kitty_Lover<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know u probably love him but you should break up with him if he does it again. I personally think you should do it now.
2006-07-06 02:20:37 · answer #5 · answered by Antigone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me....don't wait for a third time.
2006-06-29 00:17:50 · answer #6 · answered by wankypanky23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wellll i gotta sayy it..ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATERR
2006-06-29 00:30:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋