I Need Help BIG Time?

Question

I'm a 'big' guy, so does anyone have any tips on how i can get a girlfriend?? I'm kind and sweet but I'm no stud <----PROBLEM?

Answer 1

Big women need loved too!

So like the song says : [ Don't worry be Happy ]

Answer 2

Well, I'd suggest taking a look at how you dress, how groomed you are (is your hair clean and brushed?), and then from there take a look at how you view yourself. If you are feeling initimidated or come across as needy, it'll show. What you need to feel is confident in being you, sexy, happy. So then you need to ask yourself, what is it that would make you feel that way? Would it be doing some exercises and getting in better shape (hey, that can be as simple as riding a bike to work), joining clubs or taking classes in things that interest you so you have something to talk about with people (and you might find that special lady doing that), eating better, that sort of thing.

You don't need to be a stud, just be yourself and don't try too hard, do what you love and love should follow.

Answer 3

Try a computer or telephone dating service where a lady can get to know you a bit as a person before actually meeting you.

Also, on there you could say that you were a larger fellow, so that there were no surprises when you do meet her later on.

Maybe compare yourself to a celebrity eg. John Goodman or someone who is close to your size. Be honest, but don't make that the focal point of the conversation because as you say, you are "kind and swee" and those are the things that really matter!

Good luck out there! :)

Answer 4

If you're kind and sweet, you shouldn't have a problem meeting girls or getting a girlfriend. There is someone for everyone in this world.

Just get out there and meet some girls and you will find someone.

I only have one question for you. Are you looking for someone with character or are you discriminating? Meaning are looks more important than character. If so, that would be a problem.

Good Luck, hope you find someone who really appreciates you.

Answer 5

Best thing I can say, be yourself--if you're as sweet and kind as you say you are, you'll land yourself a chick--stud or not.

Just don't worry about it too much--stressing over relationships never helps--to be honest, I didn't even MEET the man that is now my husband until I had totally STOPPED looking!

Crazy, eh?

Answer 6

I have one tip.

LOVE YOURSELF.

If you're a big guy and are self-conscious about it, then do something about it! I did! I used to weight 315 pounds and now I'm 240 and going down. Lots of cycling, rollerblading, etc, and watching what I eat has been the key for me!

Good luck.

Answer 7

Just be yourself and oneday someone would come along and love you for you . It's a good thing that your kind and sweet but you have to watch that sometimes cause some girls would mess over you for what you might have. Be patient good things come to those that wait. GOOD LUCK!

Answer 8

be nice to the girls and show them that your a "man" by acting respectful toward them and i'm sure some will come your way.

don't worry. you mustn't be a stud to find a girl. thats not the only thing girls like. love her, respect her, defend her, make her feel secure with you. thats for starters.... then when both of you are comfortable, you can move on.

Answer 9

I want to tell you something man. You are a gr8 person and dont let anybody or any media change your thinking.
Fat is gr8. If you need some tips. Look below.
Be yourself and party dude. Keep it real.......

Answer 10

my brother has the same problem...
just be yourself around girls
if they're a good, nice girl, they're going to notice your a sweet guy. i've fallen for a bigger guy before and im a more attractive girl i guess, it can happen. be patient.