2006-06-28 16:40:39 · 28 answers · asked by toinky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just go up and express it
2006-06-28 16:42:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just be honest. Most relationships start out as friendships. And if he's a nice guy and cares at all about you he'll be respectful of your feelings. He may not end up feeling the same way, but it's better to have it out in the open and maybe after a little time of him thinking about it he'll realize he has the same feelings. Or he could just be too shy right this very moment to tell you the same thing. It's best to talk about it and let him know I say.
2006-07-12 10:32:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships should be started with each person being friends first and once you are good friends and you know each other real well then the next step if one or both want to deepen it by being more than just friends. I don't see anything wrong with it, as a matter of fact go for it. If he doesn't want to go any farther at least you will know and if he is a true friend then it won't hurt the friendship.
2006-07-12 15:43:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always important to be honest. Nothing ventured nothing gained. My husband and I started out as just friends when I met him I had a boyfriend. He was my brother's girlfriends brother. A group of us always got together on the weekends he and I hit it off great we had a lot of fun together as friends. When I broke it off with my boyfriend my brother's girlfriend suggested one night that I ask her brother out she said that we got along so good. I said no that I couldn't do that I don't see him as a boyfriend just a friend. Later that night I said what the hell and asked him out to dinner. To my surprise he was excited because all along he had strong feeling for me but never said anything because we where friends. So from experience I can tell you this...... You have to be friends first before you can be anything else.. If he doesn't feel the same way you do laugh it off and make light of it. Continue your friendship because you never know his feelings may someday change. Good luck to you and may you get the reaction you want. Ohh my husband and I have been together for 15 years now 11 years as husband and wife..
2006-06-28 16:55:58 · answer #4 · answered by Beauty Queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some clues and find it out what he feels of you.
Friendships which are honest & faithfull sometime do not like for love etc. if what u feel is a gerat houner and friendship its ok to tell & if its love u better find out is he in tune with u just give him some oppertunites & clues.
U can tell him stuff as jokes too & see his expressions.
if thing seems positive then its ok go ahead.
2006-06-28 16:48:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship is a thing which starts with understanding and ends with a misunderstanding.
So sweetie, go ahead and tell what you feel, if you are gonna loose him, you are gonna loose him anyways. Just dont forget to give him sometime to accept things males have a bad digestive power.
Things are gonna be just fine, relax. Just see to it that you are not snatching away anything from anyone! it hurts in the long run!
2006-06-28 16:45:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be extremelly careful if you feel something for your friend and you want to tell him, because remember that he may really trust in you as a friend and if you tell him what you feel, he might change his attitude with you... By the other hand, if you suspect that he feels something about you too, go ahead and be the one who breaks the ice between you two.. Good luck!!!!
2006-07-12 11:56:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you want to risk possibly loosing his friendship? or on the other hand don't u want to be true to you and him? how do u think he feels about u? has he ever given u the vibe of more than friends? do what u want for your future with him. starting off friends makes the best lovers.
2006-07-12 16:33:12 · answer #8 · answered by natty b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It never hurts to tell a guy you like him, you never know if he feels the same way about you.
2006-07-12 08:36:28 · answer #9 · answered by Stewart Gilligan Griffin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends... ive had good friends that i liked them and i didnt tell them.. other i told and the friendship is lost.. once u tell them, u have to realize they wont want to hurt u worst if they dont feel the same, and most the time makes them want to hang out less, and do less things with you, cuz they kinda feel that ackward moment of not wantin to hurt you... so idk.. becareful with what you tell him.. might be good but at the same time might become the worst choice.. good luck!!
2006-06-28 16:50:09 · answer #10 · answered by myownworkchief 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of Course you should Don't you ever watch the movies or TV? It ALWAYS works out in the end!!!
2006-07-12 07:53:31 · answer #11 · answered by nickster51875 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋