hi i am 18 and i am about 215lb and i have a problem with that for some reason i feel nervous in front of girls b/c of my weight. and i tried to date some girls but for some reason they are not attracted to me. so i was wondering what can i do to improve my self esteem and confidence.
2006-06-28 16:40:30 · 4 answers · asked by Shy101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Looks aren't everything to every woman. I've been dating a "bigger" guy for 4 years now and I love him with all my heart. I will never date a skinny guy with a six pack and huge muscles because it makes me feel ugly. Socially, it's the girl that's supposed to eye candy for the guys...not the other way around. There's someone out there for you. I just have to say that confidence makes anyone look 10 times better. A big guy with a smile on his face and an upbeat attitude is more appealing than a big guy who always shys away and constantly feels bad about himself. Try to stop worrying so much about getting a girl and focusing more on living your life despite how you feel about how you look. The best things happen when you least expect it.
2006-06-28 16:45:09 · answer #1 · answered by Jenn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man stop it there's alot of women out there who love BIG MEN you just have to have confidence in yourself and everything will be just fine.
2006-06-28 23:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by SANDMAN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to big girls.
2006-06-28 23:52:51 · answer #3 · answered by Bay Area Gal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u can just follow the dating rules ull be fine
2006-06-28 23:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋