I love my boyfriend, but all of a sudden my parents dont like him. Its mainly because of his dad. His dad is kinda of a prick, he cheated on my boyfriends mom. My parents know this and are afraid he will treat me with zero respect and cheat on me. I know though that my boyfriend would never do that. He doesnt like what his dad has done to his mom. My parents dont relize this though. They also think that we are to young. I've known him for 2 years and they have always thought this,but never said we should break up. im scared to loose my boyfriend,whom i love, because my parents. We are16 and 17.
2006-06-28 16:30:29 · 17 answers · asked by PrincessM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i say if you love him be with him
2006-06-28 16:32:32 · answer #1 · answered by kaycee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your parents don't know about how he feels about the situation with his parents, than maybe you should tell them how he feels about what his dad did. In a way I say you should ignore your parents, because I guess what they are just trying to do is protect you so that you don't get hurt. Because trust me, that's one thing that also hurts their parents ( when their daughters, or sons, get hurt). But than again they were young once too, so you should tell them how you want to make your own decision about this. But don't get your attitude or anything like that.
Good Luck!!!
2006-06-28 16:45:06 · answer #2 · answered by Teresa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you and him really love each other that you should keep going out because my best friend's parents HATE ehr bf, but she doesn't care what they say because they have such a good relationship. And especially if it's because of the dad. I would say keep going out with him. I think if yall have been going out long enough that he wouldn't cheat on you for some other girl, but that's just me.
2006-06-28 16:35:39 · answer #3 · answered by softballchick10410 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please Please Please......take the time to listen and try to see what ever it is your parents are seeing. They are not as dumb and over bearing as they seem. If I would have only listened to mine. Mom and Dad will love you your whole life and only want what is best for you, they are not trying to hurt you, steal your love away or lock you in a pumpkin shell. I went through the same thing and did not listen or even try to see. Love is so very very blind, and you will only see what your heart allows you to see. Just listen to what they have to say and try to understand their concerns without arguing. Try to come to a compromise with them so they know you are more guarded than they probably think you are. They just don't want to see you hurt now or later.
2006-06-28 16:45:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anntoinette M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents just want what is best for you. And they know that relationships that start at your ages rarely last. They probably just want you to date different people so you know what is out there. And your relationship may be one that lasts. But your parents probably have other reasons for not liking him. If they don't, follow your heart.
2006-06-28 16:35:02 · answer #5 · answered by dkhae1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents most have a good reasons for not liking him. Have you talked to them? I think the best thing to do is talking to them, your parents love you more than anybody else will ever love you and only want what is best for you.
Good Luck
2006-06-28 16:34:52 · answer #6 · answered by Shaki_smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should ignore them, I think you need to think about what they are saying, Ask them why they say so, Always listen to the parents, they may not always seem right when they are talking but listen and have them explain why they feel that way, you may see what they see.
2006-06-28 16:36:21 · answer #7 · answered by Nattiedred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest for the sake of peace at home you listen to them and find out what there issues are...it could be they are just concerned for your well-being...They may be afraid of a "like father-like son" issue...keep in mind they are only showing thinking of you...don't treat them like the 'enemy'...they are actually the 'good-guys'!
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2016-10-13 22:41:14 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously are you parents that wacked? As a minor, it doesn't really matter what you want. It's their house and their rules. You must abide by them.
2006-06-28 16:39:43 · answer #10 · answered by bebelucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya know what i ignored everything my parents ever told me about my boyfriends. after years of this I finally realised that they were always right! (i'm 23)
yours maybe wrong they maybe right, but honestly it's something you got to live though yourself
2006-06-28 16:34:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋