Ok..so im 13 and there is this girl who i really like but i dont wanna ask her out cuz I think she likes my frend and he told me that he was gonna ask her out tomorrow night and i think she will say yes to him cuz she likes him more and im really confused on what to do
2006-06-28 16:26:40 · 26 answers · asked by videogames1234567 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
talk to your friend, let him know how you feel. Then let the girl decide. Let him ask her out because he obviously has the guts to do so, and if she says no, wait a couple days and ask her out for yourself. Heck, maybe she doesn't like either one of you! or maybe she likes him not you. or you not him. There's tons of possibilities. So just play it cool.
2006-06-29 06:38:04 · answer #1 · answered by daddys_precious01 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I Think You Should Tell Her First And You Should Tell Your Friend Too When He Told You He Like Her I Think You Should Tell Him You Like Her 2..And If She Want The Other Guy I Guess You Need 2 Find Some One Else Who Care And Like You Back 2..Good Luck;)
2006-06-29 00:29:50 · answer #2 · answered by ❀Mother Of 2❀ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should read the book, Don't sweat the small stuff.
No girl is worth losing your best guy pal. If he told you in confidence that he was going to ask her.....leave it be and see what transpires. Another girl will come along, or maybe it won't work out between them. Either way....remember, you are just 13 and have a long life ahead of you.
2006-06-28 23:32:37 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a similar sitch when i was 16... although i was the girl.
My now long term boyfrend told me that his friend was going to ask me out which pressured him to get there before him.
Im glad i said yes though. We've been together for almost 4yrs now.
All the advice i can give is that if you really like her..fight for her...get in there before he can and if he doesnt like that well...aslthough i h8 the saying..."bro's be4 ho's"
U can always be friends with ur m8 n let him know that....
good luk
2006-06-29 00:20:40 · answer #4 · answered by samchic86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you think thaz how it iz, wit her likin ur friend, then let it be. But if i were you, i'd tell her how i felt. And i say that becuz i'm the type of person that doesnt like to be filled with regret, know? So i advise you to tell her. But if she still feelz 4 for ur friend, let it go. Dont eva let a chica come between u and ur friend. But there are plenty more gurlz out there for you. and ur 13 so dont sweat it iight?? remember itz: HO'S B4 BRO'S lol. good luck though.
~6~
2006-06-29 00:12:57 · answer #5 · answered by MAMAZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out anyway. Let her decide who she likes better. Its only fair that way.
But whatever you do, keep this in mind, no girl (or in my case, guy) is worth losing your friend over. Your friends will always be there for you and they got your back. The girl is whatever, but your friends are really something.
Good Luck!
Ruby Red Rose
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2006-06-29 01:00:18 · answer #6 · answered by ruby red rose @>-'-,-- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he a good friend if so I would stay back there is a lot of other girls out there but not very many good friends and who knows it might not work out
2006-06-28 23:31:00 · answer #7 · answered by little_devil_rain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you like her too, dont worry bout him if he is ur friend he wont get mad...but if he does simply tell him that no girl should come between your friendship and that she was the one who chose, u were expressing your freedom of speech and if he is to imature to understand tht then he needs to get a life...im 15, if u want to talk more my e-mail address is dbgtxlog@yahoo
2006-06-28 23:35:30 · answer #8 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask b4 ur friend does and if he is a real friend then he wouldn't ask her out if he knows u like her 2
2006-06-29 03:20:09 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be afraid to ask her if you dont you will never know what she could of said if you do ask her you will know and if she says no you wil get the same result of not asking her
2006-06-28 23:40:56 · answer #10 · answered by lavendernlily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋