Ok so I recently found out that one of my friends was trying to get at my boyfriend last year. My man and I have been together off and on for a year and 7 months. I'm not the type to hold my tounge so I confrunted her about it. At first she lied to me and said that she didn't try to fool around with him. But then she finally confessed. She said that it happened along time ago and that it was not important anymore. And that she didn't want our friendship to be ruined because of something so small. I'm sorry but I dont feel that this matter is small at all. Although I'm still his main I just dont think I can continue on being friends with some one who smiled in my face but tryed to bring me down behind my back... Tell me what you would do if you were in my shoes.
2006-06-28 16:22:48 · 10 answers · asked by Kristin G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you answered your own question. Listen to your inner voice. Drop her she will do it again. the only reason she is sorry is because she got caught. Do you think she would of apologized if you had not of brought it up? NO . With a friend like her you do not need enemies.
2006-06-28 16:27:08 · answer #1 · answered by plushy1 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Simply put, if this person was your friend, she would not have tried to do what she tried to do. You are right in feeling this is not a small matter, I feel the same. Any reasoning she could provide would matter not to me. However, let me ask you this, you state the bf and you have been together "on and off", were you on or off when your friend attempted her moves? Not that it makes the situation any better if you two were off but it's not as bad were you on. As for what I would do? I learned a long time ago that I can't have people in my life that I can't trust. The always wondering if you can take them at face value creates too much stress. I've walked away from a lot of people over their mis-loyalties and found that I am happier without them around.
2006-06-28 23:38:38 · answer #2 · answered by adagia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can trust your man, you have nothing to worry about! Although I will say that a girl like that will never change. I have had a friend like that, who repeated this behavior over and over, to several friends. Just know that she won't change. But the most important thing is, if your man would ever even consider cheating he is not worth it.
2006-06-28 23:31:14 · answer #3 · answered by Emily :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely not stay friends with a trifling Little slu* like your friend so I say kick her A** to the curb. You don't need a friend like that. Besides she views it as no big deal so obviously doesn't think it was wrong.
2006-06-28 23:38:31 · answer #4 · answered by babygirl_k2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the freedom to choose your friends, so why waste your time with someone that you can't trust and who you will never trust? You don't need to be surrounded by such negativity and she is just waiting to catch your scraps or sloppy seconds. Cut her loose!
2006-06-28 23:30:40 · answer #5 · answered by Wiserblond 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the answer of let them both go. If you just found out, your man's been keepin' secrets too.
2006-06-28 23:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by 4kidsmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i would just try being friends and if something pops up again just say that's it and tell her you just dont want to be friends any longer.
2006-06-28 23:30:14 · answer #7 · answered by suicidal_penguin_02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she were truly your friend she never would have tried to get your man. Let her go.
2006-06-28 23:26:56 · answer #8 · answered by dkhae1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on from both of them- and she was not your friend at all...
2006-06-28 23:28:05 · answer #9 · answered by fscape444 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i wouldnt be friends with such a person
2006-06-28 23:25:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋