ok im 13 and i think im fat and ugly and i always want to hide or just stay in my pj's. i dont like feeling like this. will it ever go away?
2006-06-28 16:17:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
if you truly hate it and want to change then do something about.
HEALTHY dieting and good exercise is the way to go.
I use to be fat but i got sick of it one day and worked most of it off... now i couldn't be happier ^_^
2006-06-28 16:19:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to go through an "I'm so ugly" phase at your age. Someday you'll realize you aren't! But there is a difference between just low self-esteem and more serious problems. If you're concerned, talk to your parents, or if you don't feel like you can talk to them, talk to your doctor.
In the meantime, I would recommend you do some research on healthy eating and exercise. I am not saying go on a diet or starve yourself, but if you eat foods that are good for you and start some form of exercise (walking, swimming, bike riding, etc.). The better care you take of your body, the more you will appreciate it!
2006-06-28 23:33:29 · answer #2 · answered by BB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really i dont like when people say they are ugly. in reallity the ugly ones become the adorable ones... im serious. and i know that it hurts you for the fact that they also had be bugging you in a way that you don't want to be bugged by. if you think that way, than try to fix yourself a little bit more for example, try something new with your hair or the way you dress and if you are shunky try to do exercise 3 times a week. do things that can actually change the way you are and feel comfortable at the same time...try it. but dont let it get to you. you can always change the way you are. but build up self confidence. really you are probably cute and a cute sense of humor..
2006-06-28 23:26:05 · answer #3 · answered by Love Land 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are going through something that every teenager goes through. You are very young and you are developing. You are not fat and you are not ugly. Don't let anyone put you down.
Don't get upset about your looks. Do something with your hair, put a little bit of makeup on. Then get dressed. Wear some jeans and a nice shirt. Then look in the mirror. You will feel better.
Go out with your friends or boyfriend = whatever you do. Have a great time with them, Don't worry about what you look like.
2006-06-28 23:24:10 · answer #4 · answered by echoesrocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt the same way when I was 13. The good news is that it doesn't always have to be that way. Try to be more active - it can be hard at first because if you exercise with other people I can guarantee that you will feel terrible compared to everyone else. But it won't be that way for long. Stay in good spirits, and good luck, you'll feel better in no time!
2006-06-28 23:28:52 · answer #5 · answered by tertiahibernica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends... are you acually fat and ugly? There is a difference between thinking you are and if you acually are. Too many people think that they are fat but they are just fine looking to me... If you were still like under 130 lbs then your not fat (then again if you are tall then you are still good) Then again... I am not the person you should be asking... and if you work out and go outside lots then yes it will go away.
2006-06-28 23:21:29 · answer #6 · answered by Tho Deep ught 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea just find stuff to do if u wanna lose weight get up and dance by yourself just feel the music and u wont feel so bad..... if u think ur ugly then look at ur face are ur eyebrows bad? fix them u have acne ? get some acne treatment there is nothing about you that u cannot solve even ur fears so get out of your shell and start working to a more confident u now!!!
2006-06-28 23:21:18 · answer #7 · answered by Maddie_Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure you're not ugly and 13 is a rough time. if you really think you're fat than eat healthy food and get exercise but i wouldnt worry, you'll grow and things will improve...try not to be so hard on yourself, you need to be more self-confident
2006-06-28 23:21:58 · answer #8 · answered by my_cat_rocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I feel the same way.
Take my advice, the only way to let get this to go away is to fix it for yourself.
Excersize more, eat right, and try to find what clothes/makeup looks the best (if you wear makuep, personaly I don't.)
But anyway, the only way you can beat this is taking action and trying to be posative. Good luck.
2006-06-28 23:20:17 · answer #9 · answered by ♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should, but if it continues to bother you or gets worse then seek outside help (like a therapist, social worker, doctor).
The teen years can be rough because of all the crazy hormones and all the huge changes in your life.
2006-06-28 23:22:08 · answer #10 · answered by Pisces 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋