we were all once children ourselves and needed both a mother and fathers love. I provide for my children and take care of their needs.
Us single mothers are looking for that special someone to take care of our needs and our childrens. It take a man who is not afraid of taking risks and having faith in God to understand the different aspects of single parent life. Maybe eventually each and everyone of us in this world including people who do not have children will find the love that was meant for them. Maybe us single mothers are just tired of kissing frogs and want to find our prince!!!!!
2006-06-28 16:05:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
so what was your question??
2006-06-28 16:07:57 · answer #1 · answered by luv41anatha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What isyour question? It is true though. Guys do not want to raise someone elses kids. If we wanted that, we would just go and make our own. I am a divorced father, but it is clear when I meet someone that I am not looking for a mommy for my kids, they already have one. The problem is most women are looking for daddies. Myspace is crawling with them. Even Dr. Laura (who I can't stand) says that once you have kids, you should stop dating because it only damages your kids. Only one in 100,000 guys will meet a single mother and fall in love and stay with her and raise and possibly even adopt her kids. With odds like that, your kids will be subjected to a parade of guys that will only be around for a little while. What message are you sending them? Insta families to men are like crosses to vampires.
2006-06-28 16:16:19 · answer #2 · answered by Joe M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you done a little less kissing frogs, you wouldn't have so many tadpoles.
Honestly, men see women with kids and no husband a bad sign, says "this woman wasn't good enough for the dad to care for his own flesh and blood, what the heck is wrong with her...not enough time to find out, enough childless hotties out there to spend time on."
2006-06-28 16:08:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my books, if a man don't want the instant family that comes with the woman, then he just needs to move on down the line!!! If he can't except me and my kids---then he is not worth a flip.
2006-06-28 16:13:30 · answer #4 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jennifer,I am one who is not scared off by a single mom. I love kids and would be happy to date a lady such as yourself who has kids.MMaybe we can email and get to know each other.My name is john and my email address is jtgowen2001@yahoo.com
I hope I hear from you soon.
2006-06-28 16:09:34 · answer #5 · answered by jtgowen2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you looking for love or financing.
I think you have to focus on certain things and categorize them by priorities. Start from there and stop feeling sorry for yourself.Survival taste good!!! Good luck!
2006-06-28 16:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by iviart34ya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's out there. If you want someone who has shared your experiences, you should look for a single dad...
2006-06-28 16:10:05 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs.Foster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you go girl!that is so true i have seven kids found my prince youll get yours to i know it!good luck
2006-06-28 16:10:02 · answer #8 · answered by blvd g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great point, but what was the question!?!
2006-06-28 16:09:00 · answer #9 · answered by macy5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋