we have been together for 6 months and she recently told me she is not in love with me.i dnt know what to do,how i should react,if i sould move on..? help!!
2006-06-28 15:50:48 · 28 answers · asked by mel p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
time to put an egg in your shoe and beat it
2006-06-28 15:53:31 · answer #1 · answered by G. M. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is to short to waste your time in relationships that will get you nowhere. Move on, it is better to be alone for awhile till you have found the right person than to waste valuable time in a relationship where the feelings ain't the same.. If you had feelings for her it will hurt to separate but in the long run you will feel better about it. Don't stop looking for the perfect one just because this relationship didn't work out. Chalk this one up as a life experience. Hopefully the two of you can part as friends. Not all relationships evolve into Love relationships. Sometimes we find love in the least expected places. Keep an open mind and never judge a book by it's cover. Good luck to you. Peace.
2006-06-28 23:06:41 · answer #2 · answered by Beauty Queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling someone they are not in love with them anymore is a hard thing to do, I doubt she would have told you this is there wasn't a lot a validity behind it. There is a pretty high chance that it's over and the best thing you can do is to let her go and move on the best you can. Then, if you still care for her, wait... it is possible that she may come back, but let this be on her own. If you meet someone new, then this is good too but don't seek someone just because your lonely and want to fill in the gap she left.
2006-06-28 22:57:34 · answer #3 · answered by Mandy P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really the saying "It take two to tango" is the best saying for this. If someone doesn't love you then it's best to just leave it at that and move on. There are more people out there. You will find someone that loves you just as much as you love them, you will be surprised how much happier you will be if you know they love you.
2006-06-28 22:53:46 · answer #4 · answered by nshappe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on My Friend...no used wanna fight for this relationship meanwhile her heart not for you anymore. Be strong, better you have this situation now instead had merried, see the positive side of it.
It takes time, but when you keep on thinking positively, you`ll healed soon, so soon even you couldnt realized at all.
2006-06-28 23:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by didi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try to talk to her about how you feel and try to get to the bottom of why she has fallen out of love with you. Talking is probably your best bet in this situation. However, if she truly has no feelings for you and she is honest with you about it then you need to respect her feelings and move on. No sense is fighting for a relationship if the other person is unwilling to try to make it work.
2006-06-28 22:55:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
better now you know then at six years. Take the relationship for what it was and move on. I know its hard and it hurts but you can't change peoples feelings and even if you could convince her to stay she would leave at some point anyway. Sorry just stay strong, you have someone out there who is meant for you.
2006-06-28 22:55:07 · answer #7 · answered by nm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force her to love u. I think u should move on because if u stay and think of her u will be wasting ur time and have a low self esteem. If u really loved her it will take u a while to get iver her but try ur best to move on.
2006-06-28 22:59:01 · answer #8 · answered by mylove06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on ...Their are plenty of women's out there that will give you the Love you desire . Look at it this way . She did you a favor by tell you , at least you know the truth , instead of being with someone who is being dishonest . I wish you Good Luck in finding the person who desire your Love and gives it back .
2006-06-28 23:00:32 · answer #9 · answered by dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try to talk to her but it sounds like she wants to close the door on your relationship.Maybe because you sound young and she is too, then she might have another playmate. Move on and start living life to the fullest.Move on and find out what you want in life.What is important to you?. It's what you settle for in life that you end up with.
2006-06-28 23:02:57 · answer #10 · answered by MystiMi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 months isn't exactly enough time to determine love. If her love is what u want, and she isn't giving it, then you need to give her time and let her learn to love you. Don't rush things, but if she can never love you then maybe you should move on if you're looking for something serious
2006-06-28 23:34:26 · answer #11 · answered by p_m_20001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋