the reason i ask this question is because. my girl friend did not have her period yet. and i gave her oral but i did not stick my penis in her. but i was horny and she did not touch it. i also finger her to.. there was nothing on my finger.its been already 12 days after we did. also, she been dieting because she have flag is that also why she not having it. please i really need help!! we're only 14
2006-06-28 15:34:45 · 8 answers · asked by David T 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
she doesnt eat on her diet..
2006-06-28 15:45:37 · update #1
also, i dont know if we should tell our parents..
2006-06-28 15:49:50 · update #2
It could be her diet that is making her late...or it could be something else that is going on within her body. It's highly unlikely that you got her pregnant. Now...for the lecture...lol...No I will spare you but really 14 is just to young to be doing those things!
2006-06-28 15:40:44 · answer #1 · answered by funlady6632@yahoo.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, relax. These kinds of childish games - there's almost no chance that she's pregnant. Her conscience is probably getting the best of her because she knows this kind of risky behavior isn't quite the best thing - and now she's worried. Just worrying can make it not show up. So, go to the store and get an over the counter pregnancy test to make sure - just make sure she does the test right and doesn't botch it up. Why not keep your hands, mouth and genitals to yourself until you're ready to marry her? There is a minute possibility - it only takes 1 sperm getting to the right place to make it happen, but it's so highly unlikely. Even if you don't go in you can still get oral herpes, venereal warts and other wonderful STDs so take a cold shower when you're "horny" and save those things for the right time in your life. If you get into the habit of being sexually active this young - you're in for some awful suprises down the road in the area of STDs. As you get older - not every girl will be "clean" or safe as it were - it's just not worth it. Would you like warts on your penis? or how about oozing sores? Once you become sexually active it only gets to be more and more of an obsession and it will really hurt you and other more than anything else in the end. Find something more pleasing to capture your attention and focus on that. Think of your skills and talents and pour yourself into something like a sport, or hobby or something other than girls. You'll find that you can actually develop really good friendships with girls that don't involve sex. Learning how to have strong relationships is a skill that you can work on that will last a lifetime.
2006-06-28 22:46:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, the only way for a girl to get pregnant is if your penis penetrates her vagina and ejaculate inside her. You don't get anybody pregnant by oral sex (even if the girl gives oral and swallows your sperm) or finger penetration. She might be late for another reason and this, usually is that her body is adjusting to this change (being sexually fertile)
Finally, people be nice to this boy, he's 14, remember when you were 14 or less???
2006-06-28 22:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by Lil' Gay Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
extreme diets cause anemia and the abscense of period is a sign of anemia... this is the only possibility you girl hasn't got her period yet... unless she cheated on you lol
2006-06-28 22:38:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if all you did was finger her and go down on her... she won't be pregnant.
2006-06-28 22:37:08 · answer #5 · answered by busball88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU HAD NO SEXUAL CONTACT MAYBE IT'S STRESS IT CAN B WHY SHE HASN'T STARTED BESIDES AREN'T U 2 YOUNG FOR SEX
2006-06-28 22:44:40 · answer #6 · answered by jamer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are obviously too young and stupid to be having any sex at all
2006-07-06 04:36:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
email me please... jollycur@yahoo.com
2006-06-28 22:41:53 · answer #8 · answered by radioactivefemale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋