Am in love with a guy who is 5 years younger than me! Is is right? we are both married?

Question

I want to know whether the relationship will last. am always thinking about our age difference whereas my partner never bothers about it

Answer 1

i must agree age is just a number . but you are both married if your not happy with your partners then tell them its only rite better then them finding out about your affairs

Answer 2

If you are both married and still living with your respective partners, then this bit is wrong, not the age thing. The fact that you are questioning the relationship is a product of you feeling guilty about the relationship per se and not the age difference. Is this relationship going anywhere? If not end it now, but not for the reason of the age difference, but for the real reason you asked this question.

Incidentally, age is just a number - I should know as my husband is 9 years younger than me and we are very happy!

Good luck whatever your decision is.

Answer 3

I'm hoping u dont mean married to other people, then it would be wrong. But if u are married together, then this is what I think. U wrote that u are always thinking about the age difference, why? Is it you that thinks its wrong, or are u scared others will? Love isn't that easy to come by and if u do the wrong thing then it may come back to bite u on the a**.

Answer 4

I dont think age is the real issue, i am 10 yrs younger than my partner, the issue is that its impossible to be fully content with this relationship if your spouses are being kept in the dark, when i met my current partner, i was in a long term relationship, I knew that it was not working and so i split with my then partner and settled down with my current partner, it was hard and i felt bad for a while but i am extremely happy with my choice now, its better than leading anyone one in deceit besides it makes you look bad!!!!

Answer 5

why does the age matter and if your always thinking about the age gap things dont sound too rosy. get on with the relationship and ditch the age hang up. are you married to each other if not then that could be the reason age is playing on your mind your insecure and frightened he will leave you for somebody else

Answer 6

Age is only a number & is of no importance.
However, the both being married thing makes a big difference.
This is wrong & you know it. Even if you both left your partners this would not last.
Look how it started. Furtive, cheating people never change. Everytime your lover went out & was late back you would always, always wonder where he/she was, what they were doing & who with.
Once a cheater, always a cheater.

Answer 7

You should look at the fact that your are committed to a marriage before you look into the age difference. Also, look into family matters, you have kids? does he have kids?
Are you going to be happy?
Nope
Will the relationship last? Nope
I believe both of you want some strange arrsss!!!!
So, leave it alone!!!!

Answer 8

Before you look at the age difference I think you should both look at your marital status. Other than that age is only a factor if you make it one, so don't let it get in the way and just go with it

Answer 9

Age is number as "i love u" is alphabets put together until it is shown. Forget about the age and give him the respect as your man,don't treat him like a baby,let him be in charge and u'll have the best relationhip even ending up with marriage vows.Good luck

Answer 10

SORT URE LIFE OUT - you are married, so u need to undo that before u enter into another relationship. and hes married too, and is cheating on his wife - he'll only do it again to u, which is no more than u deserve unless u wise up and be a decent human being.

Answer 11

age difference shouldnt matter. my 2nd husband is 8 yrs younger. we've been together 8 yrs and married 7 and things couldnt be better. I'd be more worried about your affair and the hurt its going to cause if it goes on......

personal experience here girl!