it doesn't make a dad a loser when he doesn't want his daughter to have a boyfriend... my dad doesn't want me to have a boyfriend for now. but he's okay with it after i get a stable job. sweetheart... you can't tell who's decent and who's not nowadays. i myself have been deceived by a person whom i thought i could trust. i looked up to him as a brother, friend, and a boyfriend. i never knew he could actually break my trust and leave me hanging. that incident really broke my heart. you know what i did? i spoke with my dad. he told me GREAT stuff about having a relationship. "there's nothing wrong with having a boyfriend. but if you take things VERY seriously, as if you're a married couple already, things can go very badly". my dad courted my mum for 5 years, and this year they'll be celebrating their 21st anniversary. their relationship isn't perfect at all. yeah, they argue and fight sometimes but of course they still make up. this situation can be applicable to us young princesses. our dads don't like us getting hurt at all. they want us to be beautiful, successful and happy. of course, we won't be able to do good in school if we are sad. trust me, i've gone through that stage and now i'm feeling guilty.i did pass my senior year in highschool, but my grades weren't that high.
talk with your daddy little princess. i'm sure he wouldn't want you to grow old single and sad. clear things up with him and after that, give him a big hug.
2006-07-01 23:58:38
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answered by darkwillow 3
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No Sweetie Dont Say That!!!At Least You Have A Dad Who Care About You!!He Dont Let You Have B/f Cuz He Knows Guys Just Play Around!!And If You Look Around All teenager From 14-18 Pregnant and single moms!!!
2006-06-28 16:13:57
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answered by ❀Mother Of 2❀ 6
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At least you have a dad that cares! And this is why you don't have boyfriends: I have been pregnant 6 times! Ages: 14, 15, 16, 16, 17, 18. All six were miscarriages... but would you want to be pregnant that many times? To guys you weren't married to? I know you are probably thinking "well I'll wait till I get married", but you have no idea how tempting or convincing a guy can be. Especially when you hear "I Love You".
Plus age matters... if you are only in middle school.... nope not happening... 16-18... I suppose he should lighten up a little and at least meet the guys you want to date. Get his approval... let him set the rules... at least you will get what you want and he might loosen up as he gets to know the guy. Suggest meeting the guy you like to him. Ask if it's ok to date as long as you are at your house or somewhere public with some kind of supervision and your constant calls checking in (if either one of you have a cell phone). He just might go along with it and be happy with your MATURE approach.
2006-06-28 16:29:26
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answered by ♥-=-TLCNJ19-=-♥ 5
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Dads care about their daughters so much because they use to be younger and they now how guys think so they want to protect their daughters from the boys who were like them but what dads don't see is that their sons are also out there getting with girls so it's kinda pointless to stop you. he just wants to protect you. trust me it's for the best.
2006-06-28 19:44:29
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answered by highschoolshorty 1
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Take this probably that only about all teens (even the extremely good behaved ones) wade through way of. If mothers and fathers say no, and that i favor to do it then i will do it in any case and make precise they do no longer note. i do no longer imagine that it really is unsuitable for her as a lot as now at 14 that's relating to sufficiently old to courting. once you forbid her from it she is extra extra in all probability to do it in any case, and then she would push into doing different concerns, conveniently to spite you. i'm 17 years historic, and that i communicate from expirence after I say that it will be higher at the same time as mothers and fathers, are worried with this style of component. enable her carry him abode, get to entice close him, and then if he's now no longer a superb impact step in, regardless of the actuality that furnish him a risk previously you only say that she will be able to no longer see him, thinking the very undeniable actuality that the undeniable actuality that she is going to work out him after all once you do. it really is more advantageous at the same time as she talks about it than at the same time as she hides it.
2016-11-15 09:44:20
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answered by ? 4
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Cause they know the mind of guys and know what there after(u know what)and don't wanna see there baby girls get hur,but so not fair to us!my dad is kinda in and out of my life so I don't really give him any say in my love life,thaty's between me,mom,and God!not him,but if your dads being like that show him u can be trusted,be friends with the guy u like and invite him over as a friend and get your day to like him then ask can u date him?or ask him to ask your dad!good luck
2006-06-28 15:40:13
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answered by ♥Mariah™ 4
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Dad's aren't losers- most are just plain protective that's all. And protecting you doesn't make them a loser. Why don't you ask your dad why he doesn't let you have a boyfriend? If his motive is wrong, then explain it clearly to him.
2006-06-28 15:40:12
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answered by pumpkin_juice 2
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Well I want to call my dad that but hes not even thou he told me I cant have a boyfriend untill Im 25
2006-06-28 18:28:16
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answered by T_claire 3
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because girls get pregnant. My daddy died when i was 9. I had a 18 year old boyfriend when i was 14, and i got pregnant and had a baby girl. However I stayed with him.. and i now have another 3 month old. Im currently 18.. but he is just protecting you. You'll get through!
2006-06-28 17:09:30
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answered by Anonymous
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they are not losers! they just know what guys are like and they dont want you to get hurt! you should be happy for having a father that cares about you soo much. theres many dads out there that wouldnt care at all! so you know your dad will always be there with you. my dad doesnt want me to date but im getting older. its only natural!
2006-06-28 16:24:20
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answered by Anonymous
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