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She is constanly telling me everything about my old boyfriend, even though I have told her so many times that I don't want to hear about him. Is she trying to break my heart telling me he is with someone else? They are good friends and I am ok with that, but I don't want to hear about his new girlfriend. I am a jealous person and she knows this. Why wont she stop even when I have asked her not to tell me about him?

2006-06-28 15:28:05 · 7 answers · asked by doc_is 4 in Family & Relationships Friends

7 answers

You friend isn't really showing good friendship to you at all and this is sad.
With your friend being good friends with your ex it looks more like she is trying to make you jealous so you will try and take your ex back. I am guessing your ex may have a hand in this as well. And since she is your friend she knows how jealous you are so makes sense.
I would sit her down and tell her look I know you think me and so-and-so should get back together but it is over and will never work. I need you to be my friend now and listen because I need your help. Then tell her to stop telling you about your ex. then say I really mean this and your hurting me emotionally by doing it.
If your friend brings your ex up again I would tell her that it was time to re-look our friendship because if you really valued me you would respect my wishes and as much as I hate to lose a friend you pushing just too much.

2006-06-29 07:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by Savage 7 · 6 1

maybe cause they are getting it on as well and she really wants to break your heart and make u jealous. sometimes the truth is right in front of your face.

2006-06-28 22:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by oaklandkc1 5 · 0 0

If your friend does it again tell her how you feel and get her to understand. She might not be taking you seriously. Explain why you want her to stop and if she doesn't and it really bothers you, maybe you should re-think your relationship...

2006-06-28 22:41:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Thats not the kind of friend you want to have. Friends should be the shoulder to cry on. Not the type of friend your having one...a torture one. You need to put some boarder line to this friend of yours. You need to tell her to stop torturing you and have some manners to emphatize with you. Get rid of this kind of friend.

2006-06-28 22:36:01 · answer #4 · answered by Edmundo L 1 · 0 0

I don't blame you. I would not want to here about my ex boyfriend dating a new girl either. She needs to give it a rest.. Tell her if she continues to talk about your ex then your not going to talk to her until she stops talking about him. If she still does that don;t talk to her then. Get a new friend then.

2006-06-28 22:42:01 · answer #5 · answered by LILLIAN L 2 · 0 0

it depends on how u broke up with your x boy friend.. i mean did u dump him or did he dump you...coz if it 's u who dumped him so why u got jealous at the mention of his name unless u still love him and that's clear......so it's your fault not your friend's if she mentioned anything about him especially that they are friends....but if he dumped u and u still love him and that's clear tooo...so this friend is not good friend and u should turn her off...sure u know what i mean .....good luck....

2006-06-28 22:51:03 · answer #6 · answered by bico - the music and lighting 1 · 0 0

i dont know but tell her its really really hurting you that she keeps mentioning the x . and if that doesnt work yell at her and get her attention and say I SAID STOP TALKING ABOUT HIM

2006-06-28 22:37:34 · answer #7 · answered by jojo 6 · 0 0

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