Life is hard, but why does it have to be???
2006-06-28 15:25:34 · 15 answers · asked by Courts 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
If everything was easy, nothing would be worth it and everyone could do it.
2006-06-28 15:27:01 · answer #1 · answered by sweetie_baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since we have to think why not think big. Become larger than the problems that you are having and you will be able to solve them with the least amount of damage done. Accept the worst and you will release negative energy that is consuming your reasoning powers. When life gives you lemons make lemonade, meaning make the best out of a bad situation and cut your losses to a minimum. Life is hard because that is what you are actively thinking in your mind. The greatest tool you have against this feeling is the power of your thoughts. Whatever you think will manifest itself in your life. So whenever something confirms that belief "like some of your problems you are having" you can easily say life is complicated. There is a reason that things are happening to you must find the positive in it. Remember that whatever does not kill you will just make you stronger. Whenever life is uncomfortable that simply means you are going through something that is making you grow. In all that you get, get an understanding, so please read these two books.
You may not understand this right now but you will appreciate all of this pain you are going through after you have gone through. I said going through not getting stuck.
2006-06-28 15:55:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is not complicated, it is all based on the choices you make, there are good choices that bring about happiness and there are bad choices that add drama to your life. The problem is the bad choices are to most people exciting, fun, forbidden, pleasurable and we all sometimes want to be happy, the problem is the cost of your choices and actions, admit it, sometimes you know you should not have done or be doing something but you just want to because its fun or you feel like it, well.......consequences are apart of your choices. The saying what goes around comes around is true, also the saying you reap what you sow is true.When life is so complicated that you can't figure out which way to go prayer is the answer, ask God he knows, people wonder why God just doesn't show up like superman all the time and save you from your dilemma's and it is because God is a soveriegn God he lets you make the choice to ask for help, he doesn't impose on you, so all you have to do is say "God help me" and he will. I hope this helps.
2006-06-28 15:37:37 · answer #3 · answered by gatogordo68 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would never know true joy if Life was always easy. Just accept that life can be hard...we're only here for such a short time. Learn as much as possible, and savor the happy times!
2006-06-28 15:30:44 · answer #4 · answered by gem 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is hard, so that you will LEARN!!
We are set upon the Earth to learn, what must be taught by others, and learned by each of us.
By trial and tribulations, we are tested in our FAITH. Some people need to be tested more than others, as they are probably slated for a higher position..(I am only assuming, but can not verify this, so, its my opinion only!).
Others, who live a "secular life", probably dont get tested so much, because they are destined to Hell, if they havent found CHRIST.
So, every obstacle, always remember, that if you arent with JESUS, then HE may be sending you a "hint" that HE wants you to become a deciple of HIS, and would like to see you in Church to fellowship with HIS people, and get Savlation, that HE offeres you for FREE!!
(HE paid the price of sin, on the Cross, something you and I couldnt, or wouldnt do freely, I would think)...
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-06-28 15:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is as complicated as we make it. we are where we are, because we CHOSE to be there. i am where i am because of choices i've made in the past. and i KNOW that some of my choices were not smart,(now, and probably then too.) so i chose to put me here. feel me? did you notice though, the organizations that are here to help, do nothing but make it harder?(i.e. govt, religion, family...)
2006-06-28 15:34:34 · answer #6 · answered by daddio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess because if it was really easy maybe we would be alot different than we are , i think hard times teaches us patients and understanding and it teaches us to feel for other people because we been through the ringer too , see what im saying
2006-06-28 15:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, life isnt as difficult as what you think it is. To make it beautiful and easier to live with, start it with your ownself. We always have a choice and you can choose to be happy or not, really it is up tp you. Goodluck!
2006-06-28 15:29:32 · answer #8 · answered by shih 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because once you get the things you need, you go after the things you want. If you always get the things you need, then you think you need the things you want. And if you always get the things you want, then you get bored and you want something else, but you don't know what.
Oh, and because sometimes other people need or want things that are at odds with your wants and needs.
2006-06-28 15:30:29 · answer #9 · answered by thunderpigeon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
somethings have to be hard in life and u just have to be ready for them if everythin was easy everythin in the world would be the same and that would be some borin azz sh!t. u feel me.
2006-06-28 15:37:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can make it easier if you try.
But really it is more interesting that way. a simple life is for a simple mind. enjoy the ride. it will all be over too soon.
2006-06-28 15:29:50 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋