I wonder what it would be like and how would i would like it. I wonder if my husband would like to watch or if he would hate me if he found out my fantasy.
2006-06-28 14:38:26 · 29 answers · asked by JJX MOMMY 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
All it means is that you have a rich fantasy life. Could there be a chance that you're bisexual and didn't know it? I suppose, but it's unlikely -- I don't speak from experience, but I would be willing to bet that true lesbians and bisexuals would have experienced some level of attraction to the same sex at some point before they got married. That you're only experiencing it now is just natural curiosity. I seriously doubt your husband would hate you for having this fantasy, though he may not understand it completely. It really depends on him; guys are funny that way. Even guys who are the most vocal in their disgust over gay men will usually allow lesbians in their world, if only in the vain hope that they might join in at some point. I'd mention to him casually that you had a funny dream where you were making out with a woman, and see how he reacts; I'm willing to bet good money he'll raise an eyebrow and say, "Reeealllly??? Um... what happened next?"
2006-06-28 14:48:38 · answer #1 · answered by theyuks 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi! I will start by telling you I am in a relationship with a man but I have full filled that fantasy of wanting to be with a woman also. I don't consider myself lesbian because I feel I still need a man in the bed, a woman alone just won't do. But i have to tell you that it was weird at first with a woman but in the end it was well worth it. it seemed like she knew all those little places to touch and kiss that a man just doesn't know about. for me, it was great and I am sure i will do it again, of course with the right person. But lesbian? i think not!!! just curious....
2006-06-28 14:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by babygurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married Fantasy
2016-12-11 17:36:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that theirs alot of married women that has those same
fantasies i have them all the time and trust me even though i've
never acted on it doesn't mean i don't think about it and as far as
your husband goes he would probably enjoy it but being with a
woman one or 2 times doesn't make you a lesbian it just makes
you curious.
2006-06-28 14:45:57 · answer #4 · answered by christina j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 49, been married twice, and have had lots of lovers. Never known a man that isn't turned on by the idea of watching 2 women make love. Why do you think there are so many lesbian porn films?
2006-06-28 14:44:56 · answer #5 · answered by warriorwoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun your not lesbian it is just a fantasy. I went through the exact same thing. My husband and I like to watch porn and it even got to the point that the girl on girl scenes turned me on more than any of the others. My husband and I spoke about it and we had decided against trying it although we did leave it open to think about later in our marriage. if you talk about it to your husband and make him understand that you would never go behind his back to do this, but you are curious about the whole thing he will understand and you might even find out that he is into it also. My husband is all for it we both want to try it we just want to wait till we are comfortable with the thought of bringing someone into OUR bed so to say. I hope this helps.
2006-06-28 14:53:19 · answer #6 · answered by shellshell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Just a fantasy. Maybe a bisexual. But definitely not a lesbian. If you are, you would have left your husband by now. Or not include your husband in your fantasy of being with another woman.
2006-06-28 14:44:30 · answer #7 · answered by delusionale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't make you a lesbian, but you shouldn't feel guilty about it either. Ask you husband how he would feel about allowing another woman to join the bedroom. If not, you might want to explore if it's a persistent matter.
2006-06-28 14:46:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's human nature to be curious. Whether it's a man fantasizing about another man or a woman fantasizing about another woman. It's whether or not you act on those fantasies, I for one would never.
2006-06-28 14:45:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends.
Are you attracted to women? Do you see attractive women on the street, and think what you'd like to do with them?
Are you also attracted to men?
If the answer to both questions is yes, then you're probably bisexual.
Would your husband mind? I suggest opening up a conversation about your fantasies, and emphasize that you can say ANYTHING. Then, bring up your fantasy, and see how he reacts.
2006-06-28 14:44:49 · answer #10 · answered by kligor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋