Well, this is definitely a personal response -- I'm sure my ideals are different from many other guys.
So, here goes --
(1) My ideal girlfriend is someone I enjoy being with. That's how it starts out -- two friends spending time with one another.
You don't really think about romance, or have expectations. You spend time with her, and, as time goes by, you realize - "Hey, I like doing things with her. I wonder if this is going to be permanent?!"
At that point, the weightier issues come to play:
(2) Does she view life as I do? Does she believe the Creator is her best friend, and is she accountable to the Creator in the things she does in secret.
(3) What are her goals in life? Does she want to help others? Is she compassionate and kind?
(4) The emotional things which are dear to me. Like music. Does she enjoy bands which have deep, thoughtful lyrics, like Pink Floyd or U2? Or Switchfoot.
(5) Hobbies. I like to hike and drive long distances, just to gaze at the wilderness and timberline. Does she share those passions? Agreed -- we're not going to be compatible in all things -- thus, can we allow one another space, as we do the things we enjoy doing by ourselves.
(6) Communication -- can we express ourselves. Are we understanding one another.
(7) Physical attraction -- you notice I mentioned this last. There's no question that it played a factor in getting us together -- not sex, but there has to be some attraction. A bit of chemistry.
If we marry, we will remain faithful to each other, and our intimacy and the "little" things, such as hugging, or snuggling, will go a long way in keeping us satisfied. If we're going to be married for life, the pleasurable aspect of our intimate lives will take a life of its own, and there's lots of time to learn and explore one another's passions.
(8) Having children. And how we will bring them into the world, and guide them through life. We may have our differences, and struggles, as well. But our commitment to seeing our children grow into maturity will never cease.
(9) Finances. It's something you never think about when you date, but it can be the dividing line when you're married. Especially in these financially challenging times. Does she stick to a budget? Does she buy what she can't afford?
Does she believe in savings? Does she give to charity? Does she believe that money is a gift from Above, and whatever we have is loaned to us, to help us, and to help others -- not to consume us, or make us slaves of the system.
(10) This last part is a bit tricky to explain, because it's complex. On one hand, I want a woman who will support my dreams, and help me to see my weaknesses -- to overcome them, and stay on the path created for me.
On the other hand, I want to help her realize her own dreams, to cover her blind spots, and overcome her own personal struggles, to stay on the path created for her.
2006-06-28 14:53:10
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answered by Sage 5
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For me, an ideal Cricket player must posses the following qualities: ♦ Mastery in any of the department, batting or bowling, and shouldn't be just a jack of all trades, master of none. Eg: A good batsman, and not so good bowler, or vice-versa, but at least good at something. ♦ Should also be a good fielder, who is ready to put his body on the line for his team. ♦ As Cricket is a gentlemen's sport, should be a real gentlemen, on and off the field. Should be a walker, that is when edges, shouldn't wait for the umpire's call but just walk away. Should behave well with other cricketers, opposition and fans. ♦ Should be a team's man, and coming up with a great performance when the team needs him.
2016-04-07 03:52:05
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answered by Anonymous
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Christian
Loyal
Loving
Responsible
Beautiful
Funny
Nice
Giving
Well-Liked
Sociable
Tall
Truthful
Artistically adept
Creative
Likes Music
Athletic
Wants to have kids
Active in the church
Gains satistfaction out of doing volunteer work
Able to talk about struggles or obstacles she's having in her life
Treats me like a human -- not a servant
Has hopes and dreams of achieving more in life
Goes to college
Acedemically successful and intelligent
Able to handle herself outside -- not a girlfriend who needs help getting on a bike or screams all the time
I would most likely marry her -- XOXOXOXOXOXOXO
2006-06-28 14:38:17
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answered by Anonymous
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Ideal Gf
2016-12-16 16:23:48
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answered by Anonymous
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I would not want my girlfriend to be ideal. Takes the fun out of being in a relationship. I like my girlfriend for just being her, and being stubborn about it.
2006-06-28 14:32:21
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answered by rattwagon 4
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When I walk in the room, she mysteriously knows that I am there without looking around.
She has supple breasts.
She is intelligent and can tell a good joke.
She doesn't play games when it comes to sex, but she doesn't let me date her just for sex. She responds to romance.
She demonstrates that she cares about me and puts me at the top of her list.
2006-06-28 14:35:04
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answered by god1oak 5
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She's have to be cute, smart, attentive, sensual and have to know how to do INTIMACY. (not just sex)
She'd have to really like my jokes, not just laugh to be polite... and be able to deal with an occasional bad day.
Would I marry her? are you kidding! I DID!
2006-06-28 14:32:21
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answered by Anonymous
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Well, I suppose im looking for someone to have a future with. y'know someone i would not mind seeing everyday for the rest of my life. sure were gonna drive each other crazy but it wouldn't really be realistic to expect otherwise....oh and big ****
2006-06-28 14:36:25
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answered by Anonymous
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Passions, honesty, passion, Manners, Dignity, and healthy self-esteem. Yes I will marry her
2006-06-28 14:34:21
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answered by blackscorpionknight 1
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Truthful, sincere, honest, reliable, Petite, willing, a little subservient, a little perky, sense of humor, able to keep secrets if asked to, short hair. wants children. Yes, I would.
2006-06-28 14:33:17
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answered by Anonymous
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