Do you think it is wrong to have a stripper at a bachelor party? I am also against pornos and porn magazines. Why do guys like them so much. They are all girls you could never get!!!
2006-06-28 14:09:08 · 14 answers · asked by aussie_gurl 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
I don't have low self esteem. The only reason i am aginst strippers is because i have heard in some cases they take things to far and i have seen marriages break up over it. I am happy with looking but not touching but i don't like it when a woman litierally throws herself at a guy. I only dislike pornos when a guy is in a relationship. If your partner isn't enough to get you off, you should be looking at your relationship!!
2006-06-28 14:27:17 · update #1
I think u answered your own question. Guys can go there and get lap dances from girls who would otherwise pay no attention to them. You sound like a good girl so just stay away from those type of guys. There are still decent guys in the world you know - few and far between, maybe, but there there.
2006-06-28 14:24:30 · answer #1 · answered by Mama C. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People fantasize..... yep, they do.
Men do not understand the allure of shoes for women and women don't understand the allure of strippers for men. Tough break for BOTH of them......men and women will do their thing with or WITHOUT understanding.
The biggest trouble that men get into with their fantasies is the money thing and the expectations thing. They waste good money on a fantasy and they end up expecting looks and action that few women possess or prefer.
Guys will usually tell you whether or not they like porn or strippers.... and you can gauge their interests as you get to know them. You probably don't prefer a prude.... but a somewhat worldly guy is tempting to most women.
Don't worry about what MOST men do....you only need one, after all. Just find one who feels like you do.
That's what guys have to do, right??!!
2006-06-28 14:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by TeaSwami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all fantasy, and of course most men wont ever get girls like that. If they could, they wouldn't need the fantasies. A lot of guys can't get pretty women, like they have in the porn vids and magazines. So they look and fantasize, about how it would be.
Same thing about cars, we'll never get that Ferrarri, but it's sure nice to drool over one. It's all 'If only".
2006-06-28 14:15:44 · answer #3 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beacuse they arent getting that same type of attention at home. Yes it is wrong, but strippers make guys feel like a million bucks, they get paid to do that. Normally, guys have to beg for a bit of sexiness or extra attention from their chik.
2006-06-28 14:29:14 · answer #4 · answered by doublejump43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like girls reading trashy novels. They (generally) don't need the emotional attachment that females (for the most part) need. Girls read the sex novels for the back story (as well as the naughty bits). Guys just go straight for the naughty bits.
I've seen a Chippendales show. Believe me, I could probably not get one of them (not that I'd want to...not smart enough for my tastes) but it's fun.
Loosen up just a bit! Read a naughty book or two...trust me, you'll like it!
2006-06-28 14:17:20 · answer #5 · answered by Meaghan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we like to see naked girls.
I think a stripper at a bachelor party is fine and I think a male stripper at a bachelorette party is fine.
2006-06-28 14:12:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because if they go there they can find women there that are drunk or half naked that they can put there moves on them. You know what I mean. They also think its "fun" there. And I dont think you should have a stripper at a bachelo party.
2006-06-28 14:41:08 · answer #7 · answered by Saph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm....i like porn and i'm a chick. dudes like to go to strip clubs to see T&A. It's a tradition for men to have strippers at their parties and its no big deal. It sounds to me like maybe you have low self esteem.
2006-06-28 14:15:35 · answer #8 · answered by andieangel2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some of those girls have nice bodies to look at. Porn is a turn on, it doesn't matter if they can't ever get the girls..........fantasy....ever heard of it?
2006-06-28 14:14:18 · answer #9 · answered by Katie Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a way to have fun. I don't see anything wrong with going to a strip club. I'd go to men's strip club myself if I was old enough.
2006-06-28 14:12:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋