Do you agree with this theory? The divorce rate is so high because...?

Question

so many young girls are attracted to the 'bad guy' type. Then 20 years later when we grow up and mature as women, we say to ourself, "WTH WAS I THINKING" = divorce either by him or you because it was a bad choice from the beginning.

Problem is that after the divorce the man goes and finds another young blind girl... neverending cycle.

Just a thought... so what do ya think?

Answer 1

this is very much true sister. we do all go after men who have been in jail, out of jail, selling drugs, and hitting on us. but at some time in our lives we all do grow up and realize that we were trippin.

Answer 2

I got divorced because I was married to the Anti-Christ. After my lawyer and the judge cast the demon from my life, I realized that all the trouble in a marriage was caused by women. They always want to change you. They are bad people for the most part, and I'm glad to be on my own in the world. Oh yea....most women have horrible foot oder. Those little feet and toes look cute from a distance, but up close they're weapons of mass destruction.

Answer 3

No, I can't really agree with that. I think society as a whole is breaking down, to the point where people don't have many values any more. It's a " throw-away" culture now. In my parents' and grandparents' day you made a choice and stuck with it. You just worked it out when there were problems or disagreements, because marriage is a sacred vow. It's a CONTRACT. You shouldn't just be able to renig on a whim. People are so lazy nowadays!

Answer 4

well being divorced myself i can tell you i was that bad boy u talked about and no way in the world would i ever hook up with a younger woman.now as to why divorce is so high its due to the lack of Morales and the fact that we as people are getting married for so called love and money. back in the past two people were married out of the need to survive so the marriage lasted today we don't need to stay together to survive. end result i don't need u anymore so I'm getting a divorce. sad but true

Answer 5

Yes, divorce is high because we go into it at too young of an age. Marriage is a partnership and requires commitment and loyalty. I have learned that without Jesus at the center of your marriage (and that means the husband and wife reverence Jesus) the marriage is doomed. Also, I believe no children should be born until you have been married at least five years. That gives the partners time to know each other and prepare financially and spiritually to have children.

Answer 6

That may be part of it but I think the biggest problem is too many couples don't even try to work through their problems or support each other through difficult times. Love isn't the only thing that makes a marriage work. My husband and I have been married for 8 yrs. now and we've had our share of ups and downs and what makes our marriage work is that we are very much in love with each other, we share the same core values and we're willing to work at it every single day.

Answer 7

Very simple answer. Its your life. Young or old you control it. Age has nothing to do with it. If your to dump to look out for your self then you deserve to get burned.

What usually happens is that young women tend to lean towards the bad "MACHO" man. In doing so they do not understand that this bad boy (man whatever) will not be there for long. He will catch the next train out of your life. His life will not be affected in any manner.

But your will go down the gutter in an instant. So ladies make a wise decision. Just cause he looks bad doesn't really mean he is the right one... food for thought.

Answer 8

I believe the divorce rate is so high because our society places a higher value on the happiness of individuals than it does on the happiness of families or the group as a whole. If something is hard for one of the spouses, it is more important to protect that family member's pride and comfort level than it is to protect the marriage unit. We are taught not to compromise and to put our own needs first. It is hard to stay married when there is no compromise.

Answer 9

I'm not so sure it's a theory, that being said, it's probably more due to the fact that people are disposable. Women are more apt to swoop down on anything shiny. Young women are looking to be seen with someone that is not of the ordinary. Once they realize that the un-ordinary person was real ordinary, they tend to seek out someone more stable, like a geek.

Answer 10

I don't agree with it, personally. I think the reason divorce is so high is because people don't take their relationships seriously enough. They feel that divorce is the best option if things are too bumpy. The first sign of trouble now is cause for a divorce with most couples.

Answer 11

not so much that as today's way of thinking: lack of true commitment to the partner. people change and move on and become selfish in a world of chaos (at home, on the job, in general) big ruts in different stages of life and with so many choices and temptations and lack of morals, it becomes easier to give up than to try or to " grow together". Sometimes I think the world is geared to force us into too much focus on "self" and not the "marriage" . It's all about what can I do ? not what can "we" do?