My bf and I have been together for alot of years and he has a best friend who is married and totally hot, I keep dreaming that him and I are together and we don't flirt or anything like that, not even close.
Why am i dreaming of him?????
2006-06-28 13:53:55 · 33 answers · asked by ~Ronyea Q♪ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Because you secretly like him. Seriously, if this keeps up, it could mean that you are not as in love with your boyfriend as you think you are. I knew a girl who had the same problem, was with her boyfriend for over 7 years and the day he asked her to marry him she blurted out no because she was secretly in love with his best friend.
If you love your boyfriend, you think about him and only him (or unattainable celebrities...we all do).
2006-06-28 13:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by contrafilms 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh gosh!! I dont know what to say, though If you have been with your BF for several years, I guess you just have to try and forget about his best friend. Maybe try to not see him. Besides that you have been with your boyfriend for years now and just imagine if he catches you saying his best friends name while dreaming, that would really hurt. He must be real hot, but your boyfriend should always be hotter.
2006-06-28 13:59:17 · answer #2 · answered by Janessa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you don't have feeling for this guy then I would say that the reason you're dreaming about this is because you want to have the type of relationship that your boyfriends friend has. I think you see him and his wife an wish it was you not because you want to be married to him but because your ready to get married to your boyfriend.
2006-06-28 13:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by loveismagic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause he's hot and you're horny.
I've done that before, just don't tell your boyfriend, not unless you're looking to get out of the relationship?
Keep Dreaming-Dreaming is Free.
2006-06-28 13:57:22 · answer #4 · answered by You got Moxie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the words of Madonna,"It's human nature". I do the same thing, but not about my husbands best friends. It's about other women. I say dream all you want just don't act on it.
2006-06-28 13:59:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone always have someone to dream for...but that person may not be the person you end up to marry with...it's just a day dream...it's normal...veryone will go their own way...and the time will heal.
2006-06-28 13:57:52 · answer #6 · answered by Duke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we always want what we can't have. the old saying is so true the grass seems greener on the other side till you get over there and find out its not. it doesnt hurt to dream or look, just keep remembering not to touch
2006-06-28 13:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by rileyd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams are recollections of the day, just mere fantasies sweetheart. If you love your bf don't screw it up. You're probobly just dreaming of him because you can't have him, that combined with his already atractiveness. Just live things alone and forcuse on your existing relationship with your bf.
2006-06-28 13:56:32 · answer #8 · answered by rkjackal02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you wanna. Go ahead and ruin 4 lives. He's MARRIED! Think of him and rub one out if you've gotta, but DON'T TOUCH THAT!!! Do it in your mind if you must. And then get it out of your mind. There's a really, really special place in Hell for those of us who mess up someone else's marriage. If you aren't satisfied with your current honey then cut it off. Find a new one... But do not mess with others relationships. It can only result in hell.
2006-06-28 14:05:36 · answer #9 · answered by Johnny P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had a similar experience, it doesn't mean anything, your just naturally attracted to him, and u love ur bf, so dont worry about it, the worst thing u could do is give urself a hard time about it.
2006-06-28 13:58:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋