How do you know if your a lesbian?

Answer 1

I BELIEVE THAT IF YOU ARE A LESBIAN, YOU WILL KNOW.
I WENT THRU SOMEINTERESTING EXPERIENCES, THAT MADE ME QUESTION MY OWN SEXUALITY.. IT STARTED WITH A BOYFRIEND ALWAYS WHISPERIING IN MY EAR ABOUT ME AND ANOTHER FEMALE, AND THEN I WOULD GET TURNED ON THIINKING ABOUT IT WHEN HE WAS ARROUSING ME, HE PUSHED IT IT WAS FUNNY AT FIRST THEN HE SAID " i should try it sometime" HE HAD THE FANTASY OF THAT, AND DID HIS BEST TO HELP ME GET INTO A SITUATION WITH ANOTHER FEMA,LE

AND THE FEMALE I MET, HAD A BOYFRIEND AND OLDER MAN WHO ALSO WANTED THIS ,,BUT WE (the girl and i realized they wanted to be conducting it, a part of it, and controling it, (MEANING THE TWO OF US GETTING TOGETHER,,, BUT WE HANDLED THAT, WE DID GET TOGETHER, AND THE GUYS WHO DID NOT KNNOW EACH OTHER WERE NOT AWARE, AND IT WAS A FANTASY, SPECIAL, IT TURNED ME ON,, WE GOT TOGETHER A FEW TIMES, BUT ALTHOUGH THE TURN ON A REAL PRETTY FEMM AND ME TOO,, HAD GIRL THINGS, BUBBLE BATHS, MUSIC MASSAGES, ETC, AND THEN IT WAS OVER, I HAD NO DESIRE TO BE INVOLVED, HAVE A GIRLFRIEND FOR A LOVER, OR PURSUE FEMALES.
I NEVER REGRET ANY OF THAT ,,BUT IT WAS NOT STRONG ENOUGH TO MAKE ME LOSE DESIRE FOR A MAN, IT WAS AN EXPERIENCE OF "IN ADDITION TO," not Instead of,,

for many y ears from time to time i have been with a female, and i enjoyed it and it is a turn on that i can not get with a man,, it only reinforced to me i am not a lesbian, i do not want to be full time lovers, or grow old together as a couple i prefer men.. so does that make me bi? I DONT KNOW, I DONT HAVE ONE MONTH ON AND ONE MONTH OFF,, I KNOW THAT PART OF MY INNER FEELING WAS REACHING OUT FOR WHAT I WANTED FROM MY MOM? women are feminine, soft, gentle, and the ones i had an experience with we would talk, be like sisters, kind, not pushy and womens bodies are prettier than mens, but i never felt like i wanted to abandone men, it was more of an escape to expressing the female in me with another who felt the same,, anyway anyway..i think i have all of that curiosity satisfied, i have not thought about being with a female nor when i see any sexy ladies do i think of sexual thoughts, so i am grateful that i haave the choice, and i need and want a man to fill my emotional and physical needs,,,

I do believe that some women turn later in life to a life lesbian style, but i am not so sure it is because they discovred they are gay,, i think it is they just resolved themselves to the fact that men are the weaker sex, and they had enough abuse, and emptinesss, and a good female girlfriend (BUDDY) not a lover, is easier, and less frustrating, we are all different iin our needs,
I do know some lesbians that just hate men, they hate them,, so therefore i think that is a choice, not a physical reason.. so th ats how i know i am not a lesbian,,i dont really have to pledge to any gender, but i feel more confortable with a man for a mate,,i hope i gave you another prospective, on this

Answer 2

Ask you self do you want to kiss the woman you are wondering about. There is nothing wrong with being a lesbian. If that is who you are,then be comfortable with that fact.

Answer 3

If you have romantic and/or sexual feelings of attraction to another woman, there's a good possibility that you may be lesbian. There's nothing wrong with it at all. I'm gay myself.

Answer 4

Well I'm going to go out on a limb and say that if you feel physically attracted to women and you have a curiosity about how it would be like chances are you could be one. You could be bi if you like guys too. Thats my take on it.

Answer 5

youll know when you are you will only have sexual feeling about girls only!!!!! im bi and i see nothing wrong with it!!!!!! e-mail me @ [e-mail]

Answer 6

you want to lickitysplit?

Answer 7

you will started to dating girls !! ;-)