few years a go i had sex with my ex-gf. My current Gf dosent know that.i love her a lot. Should i tell her the truth?(man,age-21)
2006-06-28 13:44:32 · 9 answers · asked by op 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
DO NOT TELL HER!!! If you really love her, keep your past to yourself. It will serve no purpose for her to know. All you would be doing is creating insecurity in her...by this, I mean that she will always wonder if you enjoyed your "ex" more than you do her--in all aspects of your relationship.
You say you are 21...well, you are now considered a man. Be a man of discretion (don't kiss and tell), and learn now that some things are better left unsaid and this is definitely one of them.
Good luck to you, my young friend. God bless.
2006-06-28 17:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by joncarhas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Let sleeping dogs lie ;-) It won't do anything but cause your current gf hurt and cause tension between the two of you. If you have a nice easy flowing relationship now, then just go with it. If it's been a few years and what you did is still bothering you you may want to look at that a bit more just for your own growth process. Sounds like the sex with the old gf has nothing to do with the new gf.
2006-06-28 21:47:00 · answer #2 · answered by Mila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she doesn't know by now she'll probably know if she goes on yahoo answers. But seriously in terms of being truthful then you should tell her. Wouldn't you want to know if she was cheating on you? Maybe this will keep your relationship together or maybe it will cause you guys to break up at least you don't have the guilt of knowing and the ex knowing which may get out of hand because we are women! I hope you find some resolve to your problem take care..
2006-06-28 20:51:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you did before you met your current girlfriend is in the past. Couples should NOT talk about prior sexcapades. They might say they are OK with it but it can cause problems for lots of people. Does your current girlfriend think you are a virgin? Did you tell her you were? I would let it alone unless she asks you point blank if you had sex before. Then don't lie. If you wish you hadn't done it then say that too. Hopefully she will want the past to stay where it is....in the past.
2006-06-28 20:57:51 · answer #4 · answered by Mache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you dating your current girlfriend when you slept with your ex? If so, move on from both of them and grow up. If you slept with your ex and you were single, good for you - keep it to yourself. Oh, and I doubt you truly love this current girl. You have a lot to learn.
2006-06-28 20:52:49 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you nuts?? DONT SAY A WORD! If you got away with it for this long, just let it slide. Is you ex still around? Even if she is, and she lets the pussy...I mean the cat out of the bag, you can deny, deny, deny.
By the way, is your ex still a whore? Do you still have her number?
2006-06-28 21:13:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You HAVE to tell her. If she won't forgive you and treats you like a nobody, tell her that your a nobody without her and you really love her. Oh, tell her you won't do it again. Once you turn like 27, ask for her to be your wife. Aww! I think I'm gonna cry...!!! *snif
2006-06-28 20:58:16 · answer #7 · answered by Jana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some thing you should take to your grave.this is one of them.
2006-06-28 20:52:27 · answer #8 · answered by Christina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was before her.
2006-06-28 21:12:33 · answer #9 · answered by eight beers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋