my friend took back her husband after he cheated on her three times.
2006-06-28 13:32:47 · 17 answers · asked by horses19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get the book "Don't Call That Man!" By Rhonda Findling.... it will give her the courage to move on....
2006-06-28 17:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by Wonderfulhaven 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he only did it once with the help of counseling I probably would.. But, after knowing that he did it three times I wouldn't. The trust has now been completely lost and in my opinion unrepairable. I think she needs to let him go and find someone who will treat her the way a woman needs to be treated. I hope there aren't any children involved, if there r then she really needs to think about the example that's being set for the child/children. As a friend u can't make her choices for her but maybe u can help her see that she deserves better than that.
2006-06-28 20:43:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on why the cheating took place. I mean there is no acceptable reason, but is it something you can work around, is it something you can forgive? You will never forget, and it may take you a while to completely trust again. It just depends on how strong of a woman you are? Not meaning that you are weak if you don't, a different kind of strong. OK I'm done
2006-06-28 20:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each individual situation and circumstances are different, There are so many factors and things that no one can ever know except the three people involved! Personally I have taken my husband back but that was the right decision for me due to the circumstances involved. Obviously there is some reason he keeps going back and that she keeps taking him back, when it's enough one of them will realize it and one of them will know what to do!
2006-06-28 20:43:28 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOPE I wouldn't my son's father cheated on me and as much as I loved him I did not take him back. I just believe that if he really loved me whatever issues he was having with me he should have talked to me about them b4 just going out and sleeping with someone else. But everyone is different some people can forgive and forget and trust again. I am not one of those people.
2006-06-28 20:37:42 · answer #5 · answered by Broken hearted 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 3 times is a bit much to forgive my bf cheated on me last time we were together but I didnt find out for sure till we got back together and if he did it again there would be no way Id take him back again!!! sounds like maybe your friend is co-dependant or maybe just afraid of being alone but really she should be more afraid of what he might bring home some of which there is no cure for ~Melissa
2006-06-28 20:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by drake_sis1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he did it once, came to me & admitted what he did, and I truly felt he was sincerely sorry, I would forgive him. If I found out on my own (like he hid it from me) he is a goner. If it would ever happen a second time, there is no forgiveness. And there are too many diseases out there. I don't play with that. NO ONE who cheats on more that one occasion will ever be worth another second of your time.
2006-06-28 20:38:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know I can say right now, he77 no I wouldn't take him back, BUT I have never been put in that position so I don't know if I would be stupid enough or not. I know it would be the worst thing he could ever do to me and I love him with all my heart.
2006-06-28 20:36:41 · answer #8 · answered by Backwoods Barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no if he cheats he dont really love you and respect you for a beautiful person that he is supposed to cherish, and if i cheated on my man i wouldnt expect him to come back to me
2006-06-28 20:38:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me being in love means i trust this person and i give trust back to them if the trust is broken how can you love them or want them back . so i'd say no and i wouldn't be in love with them no more
2006-06-28 20:43:25 · answer #10 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋