need advice !!
2006-06-28 13:25:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
There are more dudes -and friends- in the sea. I strongly suggest you move on before you waste more of your life on those two...
...If they'd do something like that to you, they aren't good people. Why would you want your closest friends to be bad people who don't care about you? ...I don't even know you and I know you're worth more than that. They don't deserve your time, much less your sympathy.
2006-06-28 13:29:51 · answer #1 · answered by Joka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you seriously asking this question? You must really love him. Its plain that he doesnt respect you. I can see you considering this option if the person was anoymous. But he dared to do it with your best friend. I mean,,,if he dared to go there then what makes you think that he wouldnt dare do it again. Woman to woman, I have been in love and been in situations where even though he hurt me, I just couldnt find the courage to leave him. I couldnt imagine me without him. But guess what? You deserve so much more than what he can offer you.
If its the sex, trust me, there are other out there that Im sure can out do him. Just take a deep breath close your eyes and step out of the relationship. Dont waste anymore time with either of them. Laren hills sang this song: What you want might make you cry and what you need might pass you by if you dont catch it. Think about it. Dont waste anymore time
2006-06-28 20:42:11 · answer #2 · answered by Simply Put 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the reason is because you wouldn't be asking the question if you shouldn't forgive him. To most people that is a no brainer that you do not forgive him and you diss your friend but obviously you must like him so if you feel that way forgive him and see what happens. He can only do it again or he could think damn this girl is really into me and she has forgiven me i better shape up. You must live to learn. Main thing is screw everyone else and do what you think is right.
2006-06-28 20:31:58 · answer #3 · answered by chokboywonda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. Boyfriends come and go. You should try working it out with your friend especially if she been your best friend for a really long time. It's going to bee awkward for a while but if she was worth calling your best friend. She's worth forgiving. You don't come across many of those!
2006-06-28 20:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive? Yes! Take him back as a BF, NO way. To err is human, but to forgive makes you much better that he will ever be.
2006-06-28 20:33:06 · answer #5 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes forgive him but let him go cause if he would cheat with your best friend who wouldn't he cheat with--u deserve better-and u will get better
2006-06-28 20:48:37 · answer #6 · answered by queendjbam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend cheated on me b4 and i took him back but it wasn't with my best friend but if it was.........i would not have taken him back if you stay with him after that he's gonna do it agan cuz any guy who gets away with cheating with their girl's best friend already have the "i got her" mind frame so i would not put myself through that pain any more if i were you
2006-06-29 04:28:39 · answer #7 · answered by chevy*gurl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! And don't forgive your "best friend" either. Kick them both to the curb.
2006-06-28 20:28:39 · answer #8 · answered by AlphaFemale 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way ditch them both you oughta know what kinda nasty dudes have been in her allready you don't all those germs in you YUCKY! I wouldn't touch him again with someone else's hands and you better let him know it too.
2006-06-28 20:31:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No cas he cheated on u n ur BFF didnt tell u!!!
2006-06-28 20:27:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋