i have been married 7 year and my husband has just started going to the same stip club every sat. and has spent $500. He tried lying about it until i showed him that i knew from the bank statemaents? I want to know if me telling him to,leave is justifed??
2006-06-28 13:22:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think that you sould give him a decision or something this is not something to seperate over but you need to do something about it now
2006-06-28 13:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by msmelissahernandez28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel he may have been screwing around with one of the dancers, then you probably made a good decision. Maybe he's looking for something extra in your relationship. How open are you with one another? Have you both sat down and discussed each others fantasies? Chances are, he's been spending alot of money on nothing. Most dancers won't touch a client, much less get involved with them. So, until he tells you otherwise, think of it as a huge financial problem with a few possible solutions.
2006-06-28 20:30:11 · answer #2 · answered by paydaytim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should sit down and have a serious talk wtih him. If you are married then why is he going to strip clubs. Maybe he is doing one of the girls there in the back. They do have rooms where for more money you can do anything you want with the girls. Maybe hes not getting it at home from you and you arent satisfying him completely. I think its a waste of money to spend 500.00 going to a strip club. The man you married definitely has a big problem. Maybe you two should go to marriage counseling. Good-luck.
2006-06-28 20:28:50 · answer #3 · answered by Sexy Smoochie? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he is lying about that there may be more that he is lying about. You will have to get to the bottom of this fast, $500 is alot of money, he could have bought you a nice ring with that money! You deserve better, make him become a better man real quick or yes, you are justified completly in wanting him to leave.
2006-06-28 20:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by Holly H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl friend, you need to drop that zero. If he got to go to a strip club something is wrong with that picture and I don't know how you can take it, him going out spending $500, no, no, no. Girl you just need to tell him he need to choose, or off you go. That money could be paying a bill. Come on now.
2006-06-28 20:28:26 · answer #5 · answered by cymp30boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question is...is he just using it as stripper tips or for stripper action? Have him followed and find out. $500 is a lot of money for going out to a strip club! I would be steamin! Ultimatum time...once a month strip club & $50 allowance or i'm leavin!
2006-06-28 20:29:19 · answer #6 · answered by the_charmed_one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want justification for him to leave the strip club, or for you to leave him? Either way, you need to be talking to him about the issues. Communication is key.
2006-06-28 20:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by Curious1usa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he didn't want to tell you about his Saturday night things then i think he must have something to hide and as for the money he has spent that is uncalled for, when married i believe that both partners need to know about the amount of money been spent especially large amounts
so if you ask him to leave then i think it is justified and you have nothing to feel guilty about
if you don't ask him to leave the do as he has been doing and enjoy yourself
2006-06-28 20:32:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are justified. Wasting money without concern for you is a big problem.
2006-06-28 20:25:48 · answer #9 · answered by ocean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is spending that much money at the tittie bar than women you better make it real clear to him which side you stand on,I feel some funny business is at hand here.check it out
2006-06-28 20:28:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋