I don't think that it's right to have sex before marriage, but it makes me feel good to dream about it. Is it wrong to dream about something that you know is wrong, but it makes you feel good?
Plus, it's possible for me to get pregnant if i make sex, and i want to with this guy in my class, but i'm only in seventh grade. should i do it?
2006-06-28 13:21:55 · 43 answers · asked by Rosie 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
First off sex before marriage isn't "wrong." In my world you HAVE to have sex with someone before you will know if the marriage will work out.
Now sex in the 7th Grade? Unfortunately I have to say THAT is wrong. Wait until you are at least 16 and make sure the guy you are with is the same age or also a virgin too.
As far as pregnancy, depends on how developed you are. If you having your period? Yes. But regardless, use a condom ALWAYS
2006-06-28 13:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by contrafilms 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, dreaming about sex is no big deal. I'm eighteen and I haven't had sex, but I sure do think about it a lot. Your ideas on sex before marriage may change, too.
Honestly, you're in seventh grade, that makes you about thirteen. There is NO NEED to have sex at that age. I know you've probably heard it before, but honestly, take it from another teenager. If you have sex at that age you'll be labelled "easy" and no one wants that.
Your body at your age is just swimming with hormones. Dream about it, read about it, just don't do it; not yet, anyway.
2006-06-28 13:38:24 · answer #2 · answered by Meaghan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No definitely not. I know exactly how u feel. I'm 27 years old and I'm engaged to be married and i still haven't had sex. I'm saving it for my wedding night. Even though people make fun of me for still being a virgin, I don't care. This is something very special to give to someone, u don't want to give it to just anybody, cause u can never get it back. So wait until u find that special someone, I never thought I would, but i did.
2006-06-28 13:30:21 · answer #3 · answered by wolvesblackpanther2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think it is wrong having sex before marriage, then you should think it is wrong to have a lot of sex after marriage because it is sinful too. If you are able to have sex only to have children, say you want two kids,you will only have sex twice, then keep it this way. If you are not up for it, stop bothering yourself with stupid religious technicalities and 'lets half sin' is better than full sin....bull$hit..
2006-06-28 13:28:36 · answer #4 · answered by Nostromo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are far too young to be having sex. You need a little more physical maturity before you're really ready, even though you are old enough to get pregnant.
It's not wrong to dream about having sex, but it would be wrong to have sex if you feel it is wrong to have sex before marriage. Dreaming it is hard to avoid when you're a teenager, but doing it would be hypocritical.
2006-06-28 13:27:45 · answer #5 · answered by grinningleaf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, dreaming about it and doing it are two totally different things. Secondly and last of all, don't do it (at least not yet). You're in 7th grade. You're still too young. You could be making the worst decision of your life if you do. I don't want you to feel bad about it. I'll be totally honest with you. I'm almost 23 and I've NEVER had sex. So just be honest with yourself and if it feels right for you then go ahead. But always remember, YOU'RE GOING TO HAVE TO LEARN TO LIVE WITH THE CONSEQUENCES OF YOUR ACTIONS.
2006-06-28 13:26:34 · answer #6 · answered by libgurl2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lord no, don't do it!! That's something you can NEVER get back and loosing your virginity at such a young age is something you'll regret for the rest of your life...and yes, you CAN get pregnant. You can get pregnant the 1st time, 10th time, on your period, etc. You can't control your dreams so don't feel bad or guilty about that, it's a lot better than the alternative of giving it up now!
2006-06-28 13:26:01 · answer #7 · answered by Jill S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the people that answer these questions do not realize that your going to do it if you want to not by what they have to say.So have sex if you want everyone does it before marriage anyways just keep it in the back of your mind that you can get pregnant and you only have one time to be a virgin it is your choice not what any other person tells you.
2006-06-28 13:27:01 · answer #8 · answered by Førsâkëñ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong..but you're way too young for sex you're only in 7th grade..you should wait until you can handle the situation better..what if you give it up and then he don't want you ... you'll feel hurt and used ...and you'll have wasted yourself on the wrong guy...but you shouldn't think about having a kid cus you're just a kid... hold off someone better will come your way when u are ready .
2006-06-28 13:26:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreaming about something you shouldn't do isn't wrong.
I'm sure you have some adults that you can talk to and trust to keep what you say secret. Talk to an adult woman you trust about your idea of having sex with this guy in your class that you dream about getting pregnant with. She'll have some questions foryou that you need to think about.
2006-06-28 13:29:45 · answer #10 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋