Before you get all judgemental I was rapped by my stepfather. I am using my sisters email adress becuz i don't have one, but she dosen't know. I havne't told anyone becuz i am scared to. My mom dosen't care and is drunk alot as is my dad. I bought a preggy test and it said i was positive. I've missed my last two periods and have been really sick. It hurts really really bad. Is that normal? What should i do? I can't tell my parents and my sister is only 14.
2006-06-28 13:18:19 · 41 answers · asked by midnight darkness 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Abortion.
2006-06-28 13:22:16 · answer #1 · answered by ratboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun the longer you wait the worst it is, you are not fully developed and having a child at your age is not healthy, you could seriously die. Not recommending an abortion either. You should definitely tell the police, i know that it is scary, but you need to report it, if after a doctor has checked you out determines that you can have this baby (remember it is not the baby's fault, you stepfather is a sick man!) then i think you should give it up for adoption. If it is your step dad's not to worry they Can do DNA testing with the baby still in the womb, and they can process his nasty azz!
but please do tell someone, the baby is not gonna go away the longer you wait!! and if you have it don't throw it in the dumpster, a lot of couples out there will be able to give it a great loving home.
2006-06-28 13:33:55 · answer #2 · answered by half insane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I do not believe this is real because you do not sound like a10 year old child , where did you get the money for a test and how did you get to the pharmacy and know what to buy?
If it is however real , go to the police. They will take you to the hospital and confirm your pregnancy , they will also arrest your step-father and put you in protective custody. The court will make sure someone is looking out for your/and your sisters best interests since no one else is.
If this is a joke , find something better to do with your time.As sadly children are raped and abused every day and it is nothing to make jokes about.
2006-06-28 13:31:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the Emergancy room as soon as you can to get checked out. Trust the nurses there, they are there to help anyone who is in pain and of course they will know resourses how to help you for your well being and for the baby. that is, if you aren't some lying kid playing on the internet, hey, kids do play around on the internet and it's scary cause there are TRUE 10 yr olds getting raped and getting pregnant and yelling for help! If you don't know anyone you trust to tell this to, I suggest you find the nearest pay phone, DIAL 911, when they answer, you don't HAVE to tell them the details to what happened just yet, wait until you are with someone you can trust like a nurse or an officer, let them know you need an officer immediatly to come out to you and help you. Trust the officers too cause they are our LAW and the LAW protects! May GOD bless you sweetheart! Hang in there! It's all going to be ok! Trust me! EMAIL ME IF YOU NEED TOO.....mydollin5@yahoo.com
2006-06-28 13:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by Cherries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey child, you need some professional help..... Be it Meantally or emotionally. Don't listen to the negative remaks made on here.... Trust your heart! Instead of these people talking down on you they should be trying to show you the right way to go.... As for you rap, majority of the women whose rapped are rapped by family member or somone they know. So you should go to the police immediately. As for telling your mom, If she doesn't care now she probly will hate you or dis trust what you have to say about this man....... Find another active adult in your life and start from there.....You are not alone and you're not the first it has happened to......
2006-06-28 13:39:58 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay sweetie...first off, have you told someone your stepfather raped you? You need to let someone know so that the b*stard gets punished for this. Also, it sounds like you need to call Child Protection Services. At this point you are quite unable to take care of yourself and the adults around you seem unable to take care of you.
Also, lots of people will jump on me for this, but I believe that at your age you should get an abortion. Go to Planned Parenthood, they may be able to help you see an obgyn. Going through pregnancy and having a baby at your age is not healthy, there could be dire consequences.
I'm sorry you have no one to turn to...you need to tell a trusted adult about what has happened to you.
2006-06-28 13:34:33 · answer #6 · answered by bitto luv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if what u say is all true u should proably try and go to children services or something because u shouldnt b going through that. i am not a proffesional or anything but u should go to some type of group home for unwed pregnant teens or somewhere were u can get help for u and your baby. if anything go to a doctor b/c i dont think u should b feeling any pain. your stepfather should be sent to jail for what he did because that should have never happened to u i hope u can get the help that u need but if your home life is really that bad than u need to get help as soon as possible to get u and your sister out of that kind of environment.
2006-06-28 13:26:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny, you need to tell someone, you were raped and wound up pregnant. Is there a grandparent, or older friend, or a teacher. You are way to young to be a mother. Does your sister have a boyfriend you can tell or someone one you both trust. IF you definitely have no one else you can call on of these numbers. United States Child Abuse Hotline:1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) or United States Sexual Assault Hotline:1-800-656-4673. If you need anything else feel free to email me @ angelsbaby4ever2003@yahoo.com
2006-06-28 13:27:34 · answer #8 · answered by kellymarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart,please go to the one adult you can trust.Try a teacher at school or an aunt.You are so young and that is an aweful thing that has happened to you.You really need medical help for your health and the babies.You could be having a miscarriage.You might think that is a good thing to lose the baby,but if you lose it and do not get the proper medical attention,you could get very sick and it could be fatal.(you could die).the death of a fetus(unborn baby) left inside the wound(stomach) can cause infections that could kill you.I am so sorry about this tragedy.Please talk to someone so they can help you.
2006-06-28 13:25:20 · answer #9 · answered by candy_apple033 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the cops, tell a teacher, tell someone! Tell someone you feel at least semi-comfortable with. They'll get you all the help you'll need and put your stepfather in jail, where he belongs. If you love your mother, I'm sorry, becasuse you'll be taken away from her, as will your sister. Really, call the police and tell them or something. You shouldn't be at home.
2006-06-28 13:24:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would inform a teacher, or local official that you feel comfortable with. Maybe a neighbor, or a relative that you can trust. Your local family services needs to be contacted concerning the entire event due to your mother's lack of concern, and your stepfather's actions. IF you ask me, neither one of them are worth a crap in my book. I wish you the best, and hopefully things will work out for you. As far as your "parents" go, I hope they get the just punishment they deserve.
2006-06-28 13:24:04 · answer #11 · answered by iiboogeymanii 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋