Is it alright for a married woman to have a affair with a married man?

Question

Im not talking about myself by the way, this is just in general.

Answer 1

I wouldn't. Been there done that (with Hubby's full permission - long story) and I'll tell ya, SOMEONE (usually AT LEAST the 2 having the affair and if you get caught 4 people + kids/family etc..) GETS HURT!

Are you willing to risk your marriage for a lil 'fun'? If you are, then why not 'just get out' instead? Why hurt someone else and their family should they find out?

It's just not worth the hurt if you found someone terrific (and many times you do) to figure out that you can never have them, and even if 'nobody' found out.. the pain of 'living with that' SUCKS! Be kind to yourself and quit takin the chickens way out of the marriage.. by getting caught. If you want out, have the courage to say so, and do something about it, and at least THEN you'd have your credibility, honor etc.. still in tact.

I wish you the best here, because I DO KNOW how tempting it is, but PLEASE take it from someone who has done it.. THERE IS NO WIN - EVER! Even if you found the love of your life and you all moved in together and got maried, then you'd be obsessing about him cheating on you! So save yourself the heartache, emotional pain and 'dealing' with the lying and all that you would have to do to achieve this 'goal'.

Please be careful, and if you do, have SAFE sex, no matter how much you trust him, and no matter HOW MUCH HE SAYS - This is his first affair too! They are expert liars.

Answer 2

Don't be a bigger loser than you've already proven yourself to be. She's playing you like a deck of cards.1st of all once a cheater always a big cheater. Once she gets tired of you ,it's off to find someone else. This is a married woman who has taken sacred vows of forsaking " ALL" others to cleave only to her husband. You're not in love , just "P***Y---- WHIPPED!!! 20 something yrs. old and this is your first piece and your first love? Boy you're whipped. How can you afford to take care of you, her and her kids? You see she's in no hurry to leave her husband. Just like men, women want something different every once in a while. You can do better than a ready made family. Right now just enjoy the sex without the hassle of caretaker-ship. Think with your big head,not the little one. Plus it's not just her fault she got her @ss kicked. If you had not been messing around with here someone else would have to take the blame. He was wrong for beating her up ,but you're just as wrong for having an affair with her.

Answer 3

Ok you having this void in you life needed to be filled. Maybe the other half is feeling it to. In france they have open affairs and never bring it home.Sapranos they have Gudmars Depends on your Hubby. Be open because you never know and based on how strong your relationship is.
Most of all you don't want the affair to leave you empty, expecting or more emotional drained no offense to Men but the tick differently

Answer 4

Is this a trick question? No, it's not, unless they're married to each other. Maybe if they're both separated and the divorces are pending. But if each is still married to someone else, not it's not alright. See, marriage is all about monogamy and exclusivity. Or was that not in your vows?

Answer 5

Sure, so long as both get divorced first! Affairs aren't alright, regardless if one or both are married. Does anyone remember the vows anymore? To love, HONOR, and cherish....

Answer 6

Sure.

I'm married and interested in an affair with a married woman in Los Angeles - any takers?

Answer 7

don't do it, you will find out the price of it later and regret it, it is just too costly, both way. and it is not worth it. There are more exciting things in life than fooling around. remember why you get marry in the first place. try something else, and with your spouse.
Good Luck.

Answer 8

only if the married man is your husband and do you believe in the bible no good can come from this sitituation how would you feel if some one else took away your time that you were suppose to spend with the one you love so I believe it is wrong

Answer 9

If you are both separated then yes.

This happened to me when my father cheated on my mother with another married woman.

The children and the partners were left hurt and confused!

But I would seriously reconsider - get a separation if you don't want to be with your husband!

Answer 10

if their spouse3s dont mind and they are having one themselves, if children result of this affair and the people invloved dont care if they catch a desease and they dont mind then yes two married people can have an affair.