Has this ever happened to you, please help.
2006-06-28 13:06:50 · 14 answers · asked by QUI 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
It happens alot when they pin me or I pin them and our breast rub together. That's my biggest concern.
2006-06-28 13:15:25 · update #1
No, that does not make you a lesbian, but, maybe it is the feeling you get when you are around these girlfriends of yours.
I mean, maybe they are touching-accidently-certain parts of your body while you are wrestling that gets you excited. And, why are you wrestling with your girlfriends anyway?
I think you really do enjoy being with your girlfriends, now you'd mentioned it. Do you like being with one of your girlfriends in that way?
You have to ask yourself that question. Other then that, no.
2006-06-28 13:15:48 · answer #1 · answered by uchaboo 6 · 3⤊ 3⤋
The body can get aroused by all sorts of things. Take vibrations... it's quite easy to get aroused sitting on a bumpy bus or a vibrating washing machine for example. So the excitement and intense but light-hearted physical contact involved in wrestling may be enough to set the body off. It doesn't mean you have a particular attraction to women.
2006-06-29 00:15:09 · answer #2 · answered by Aldan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey,
first of hunny please don't think i some guy with a lesbian fetish jumping at u. I can try to help u though. I friends with a bunch of girls that have similar issues. I do have a few couples im good friends with that are lesbians, but i dont think u need toworry that ur one. Honestly, even sober, they cant wrestle with another girl for even a minute without getting intimate, so unless ur jumping on ur girlfriends to make out ur ok on that. However the majority of girls i know are very open minded towards other females. most of them call it experimental, and few like the term bisexual. Getting damp or even remotly aroused when being in close contact with others regardless of sexual prefrence is perfectly normal. For example i once dated a girl back in 8 grade that honest to god could not ride a bike calmly. Within minutes her making contact with that seat would make her horny as hell. in which case we'de stop and i'd help her solve her issue. But anyways the point im making is that her "dampness" (i'm trying my best to use unoffensive words as i dont know u) does not mean she has a fetish for bikes, it the simple make up of her body. When our bodies are rubbed, touched, kissed, or even made contact with it is a natural emotion to become aroused. (for example as a guy i still dont quite understand why i always wake up with a hard on even after a night of sex). I really dont think u have anything to worry about. But if u really think u do have feelings for other girls try to relax and keep an open mind, realise that its not bad and stay away from words like bi, gay, lesbian, ect... just think of it as experimental.... almost every girl has some of it them, but usually it never leads them past making out tih a girlfriend when drunk at a party. Really u have nothing to worry about. if u would like to talk or just need someone to listen, u can always email me at youngmeat7303@yahoo.com.
a wigger turned rocker,
Arthur
2006-06-28 13:25:33 · answer #3 · answered by youngmeat7303 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone is at least a little bit homosexual. There must be at least one person of the same sex that you have found attractive. I have, I have even kissed women...but I don't consider myself homosexual.
Just keep an open mind and date whoever you are attracted to. But I wouldn't hit on your friends until you know for sure that you like them in a romantic way...it will just make the friendship messy.
Good Luck.
2006-06-28 16:31:59 · answer #4 · answered by az 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so- not necessarily, think about it, if you were wrestling with a guy you'd probably get the same physical reaction. Wrestling CAN be, not always is but CAN be a sexual activity, even if sex is the furthest thing from your mind and the activity is not particularly sex related.
2006-06-28 13:15:56 · answer #5 · answered by Bethann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probobly
2006-06-28 13:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by skaterguy8675 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so, it's normal to have "weird" feelings towards the people that are closest to you...some women are even in sync with thier friends menstrual cycles.
2006-06-28 13:12:29 · answer #7 · answered by sweetgcandi85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is everything sexy about women. They are soft and curvy. They smell good. Shiny hair. What isn't to love. I'm a girl & I think girls are incredibly sexy. I'm not really lez but I would try it.
2006-06-28 13:53:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it does make you a lesbian. but that is ok. I would like to watch you and your friend wrestle sometime. make sure you kiss your friend french style next time you wrestle
2006-06-28 13:25:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It might not mean anything sexual at all,maybe its just the excitement of wrestling.
2006-06-28 13:11:16 · answer #10 · answered by LUNCHY THE PIRATE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋