ok so one of my best friends just got her first bf (we are in the 9th grade) and its gone straight to her head and she thinks that just because she has a bf that me and her other bff are jealouse of her witch we are so not i mean we could care less. she spends most of her time with him and is blowing us off? what should i do?
2006-06-28 12:57:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have been in this situation... but in the guys place. The only thing I could do is tell her to go hang out with her friends and that she doesn't need to lose valueable friendship because of our relationship. Her friends appreciated this very much. Try talking to him about it and see if he can't get her to hang with you'll every once in a while.
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2006-06-30 14:47:11 · answer #1 · answered by Tom P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her, if that's what she wants well then give it to her. If she keeps blowing you off then don't bother with her. She'll be looking for you when she starts having problems with her new boyfriend. Then the tables will be turned and is up to you if you want to remind her about the times she ignored you and your other friends and remind her of how a guy should never come between friends. Keep this in mind: Men are like fish in the sea.
2006-06-28 20:02:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never had a boyfriend and im going to the ninth grade so i can understand how she feels.She's probly so happy to finally have a relationship with someone and since she never has had one she probly feels like someone can take him away from her so easily And its just all going to her head. let her know that your there for her even though she may be acting a little looney. Just give her some space she will eventually come around. And also DONT NOT tell her that he is cheating on her(if he in fact is) because she wont believe you. let her find out for herself but when she comes crawling back to you for a shoulder to lean on dont rub it in her face that she was wrong.
2006-06-28 20:15:58 · answer #3 · answered by baby*Phat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will happen all through your life its what makes the ride ever changing ,your Friends will come and go in and out of your life they may hurt you when they leave and love you when they come back others cant return to you because they burn the bridges behind them, Be strong and mend each bridge you can . try not be hurt by your gf's being a little stupid ,at your age a long term relationship lasts a year if that so just be there when she comes to her senses . we all need our Friends
2006-06-28 20:08:29 · answer #4 · answered by slick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time.
If its her first boyfriend it will almost for sure not be her last.
If you want to, tell her how you feel.
But she´ll eventually see for herself how selfish she´s being and that she wouldnt like it if you guys did the same to her.
And if they brake up, in whose shoulder do you think she´s gonna complain and cry???
Good luck!
2006-06-28 20:04:11 · answer #5 · answered by missp_rio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her shes just trying to make you jelouse shes probably jelouse of you, thats why she is trying to make you jelouse. If you just act like she doesn't have a bf than she will stop. complicated. but easy!! Good Luck Girl!!
2006-06-28 20:01:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day they will broke up teen dating doesn't last long I know. What you got to do is try to talk to her and tell that it is broking your friendship up.
2006-06-28 20:15:20 · answer #7 · answered by myangelbaby71018 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK to her. tell her that youre really happy that she got a b/f but to please remember who her friends are! boyfriends are fun and exciting but they are not forever. when the break-up comes shell be running to you and your other friend. so just try rationally talking to her.
2006-06-28 20:02:33 · answer #8 · answered by MAF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do sound a little jealous, you'll will get one soon too.
2006-06-28 20:02:05 · answer #9 · answered by strawberry jam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about gettin blown off, there is olny so much time, she has many freinds.
2006-06-28 20:00:57 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋