When I want to have sex he tells me to go to sleep he only wants it when he wants it. How can I fix this problem?
2006-06-28 12:15:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Get a new boyfriend!
2006-06-28 18:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by Janet K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Low sex drive. Find a sex partner on the side to give you some when you want it. You can also just start saying no when he wants it and say I'm not in the mood right now either go to sleep. After a few rejections he might *** around and rise to the occation.
2006-06-28 20:09:24 · answer #2 · answered by Lil Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you unhappy and if he can't do better he must have someone else because most men want sex all the time.So tell him he may need some help from a dr.with some medication
2006-06-28 19:19:46 · answer #3 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its a guy in his teens or early 20's and he doesnt want sex when offered is either:
1. gay
2. getting it elsewhere
I am 41 and I still want it as often as possible. so if someone is 1/2 my age then its has to be something.
2006-06-29 09:03:30 · answer #4 · answered by denissch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why he is interested in Sex and be nice when you do. Sometimes men get bored maybe try something new like a sexy outfit and candles
2006-06-28 19:19:11 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa Michelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, get married, so it's not a sin...then i'd say that if he only wants it when HE wants it...leave. aren't you worth more then this? i'd say so! sex isn't about selfishness...which is clearly what he is acting like. selfish. sex is supposed to be making love...and it's about the other person as well as yourself! God bless you and take care hon. i hope it all works out.
2006-06-28 19:32:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that its your turn to get it only when YOU want it. If he objects...tell him your gonna find a little something on the side.
That way he will be able to sleep better.
2006-06-28 19:19:05 · answer #7 · answered by werk2much2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married, then you will have a committment and a bond and a right to expect sacrifice and consideration.
With unmarried sex, you can take it or leave it, stay or move on, but that's all.
2006-06-28 19:20:03 · answer #8 · answered by enginerd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love Wisewon's answer.... that's the exact solution...... no man would ever refuse sex unless there was a problem like he doesn't like you or its not pleasing to him simple as that.... if its not pleasing then you need to step your game up before someone else does
2006-06-28 19:18:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out who he is having sex with.
2006-06-28 19:18:40 · answer #10 · answered by Shermyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Me
2006-06-28 19:18:00 · answer #11 · answered by Neal J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋