Continued from part 1..
After that wonderful night..I didn't hear from him. I was devasted..and to top it off...I found out I was pregnant about a month later. I was 17 yrs old, in love, and alone. I thought he loved me too, but I was wrong. So I didn't know what to do, and decided I couldn't go through the pregnancy alone (I regret it till this day). So about a year after that (meanwhile hating life, guys, feeling depressed, etc..), I started feeling better about myself. Then I heard he was back around, and decided to give him a call and just go off on him. I had a million and 1 things to tell him!!!! So I call, and guess who answers??...his wife!! Then I hear a baby, and find out it is his 1 yr old daughter!! Not knowing what 2 say, I played stupid, got off the phone, and cried for weeks and months. How could he have done that, and not have told me anything? Well,13 yrs l8r, he got in touch with me, apologized,explained,and i understand.i'm married now,with kids,and we r inlove.hlp
2006-06-28 11:18:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
deal with the feelings from the past, but i wouldn't mess with what's going on in your life now. you're married, happy and have children now too. why mess up every-ones lives with something from the past. your feelings will always be there, but why mess up a happy family. he has a family too, so that would be destroying 2 whole families from a childhood love.
like the woman said above, if it didn't work then, what makes you think it would work now?
take care, and i wish for you all the best
you're not the first person to feel this way either, so don't feel alone!
2006-06-28 11:27:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you married to someone else or are you married to him?If you are married to another guy and you are still in love with him then I personally think that you should go on a walk (by your self) and figure out if you want to stay with you husband or be with him because if you love him and love you husband problem will come when you have a fight or something like that wrong thing slip out and they lead to other problems(4 example) you MIGHT say somethin like I wish I wold have went back 2 my EX-BOYFRIEND and that is a really a bad thing.So think about what to do!!!! BEST Wishes!!!!
2006-06-28 18:36:52 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so if I understand you right, you are married to someone else, have kids, and are involved with this old boyfreind? If your husband finds out and divorces you I guess you deserve what you will get, a guy who lied to you and left you more than once, and will probably do so again. It's sad if thats all you want from your life.
2006-06-28 18:31:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it is to believe, this too shall pass. I am a firm believer in onward and upward: If you didn't make a go of it then, you're not going to now ESPECIALLY if he's married. Yeah, we have those stupid romantic "what if's" but I am telling you if you concentrate on going forward (getting involved in the here and now) this guy will become less and less important.
2006-06-28 18:21:37 · answer #4 · answered by Ellie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
T-R-O-U-B-L-E !!! I would distance myself from this man. Stop living in the past and look toward the future. Take a long look at the life you and your husband has built, for yourselves and your children, and appreciate that. You can't break up a strong marriage-its the shaky ones you have to worry about. Hold on to what you have.
2006-06-28 23:22:01 · answer #5 · answered by moonlight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got over and through it the first time and if you love your husband and family you can do it again. If he was the father just remember anyone can be a father its being a Dad that really matters and he wasn't very good at that and possibly not being good at that again. Do yourself a favor and be stronger this time.
2006-06-28 18:32:29 · answer #6 · answered by Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he could cheat on his wife don't you think he can cheat on you too? And also, not telling you that he was married, he already cheated on you. Kick this guy to the curb and go on with your life. There's alot more men in this world.
2006-06-28 18:26:51 · answer #7 · answered by Kent N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow what a strong love to hold on to I can relate but don't loose what you have in a family for love you think you still have in someone else
2006-06-28 18:23:26 · answer #8 · answered by to nice 4 my own good 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Distance yourself from him....just move on...the past always looks better..even if it is not.
2006-06-28 18:22:05 · answer #9 · answered by safiyafadil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋