My BestFriend (boy) is sending weird signals.
He gave me his most precious possession (necklace), last week.
He knows I like him. and Hes admitted to me that he likes me.
He told MY best friend that he didnt like anyone and wants to go out with his ex.
He told HIS best friend that he can imagine himself with me till the end of time, and that Im the one girl hes ever wanted to date. "miss right".
I don't know what to do.
Should I give him his necklace back?
Please.
Anything helps.
xoxo
2006-06-28 11:15:52 · 26 answers · asked by Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hes been my best friend since i was 10.
2006-06-28 11:18:45 · update #1
well, if you like him, and he likes you, then it's perfect! Don't wait till something happens. Before you know he might be taken. Take some thought into it and talk to him. You might feel something inside of you. (that's called 'love')
So don't give his necklace back. He knows your worth giving it to. :)
2006-06-28 11:21:07 · answer #1 · answered by rocksinger4ever 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Look, if he thinks you're "miss right" he'll come around when he is ready to commit to you. Go on living your life, appreciate his friendship, but let him make the first move. Keep the necklace because it is still a gift from your best friend. He may not be confident enough to date you yet. He probably really doesn't want to screw it up with you, so he's taking his time.
Best wishes!
2006-06-28 11:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by Sara B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess what? I hate to break it to you but if he is this indecisive, it will frustrate you down the line. He is afraid of commitment and won't admit it so he plays both sides against the middle and never have to take ownership of anything. He likes me, he likes me not. YOu will have an on again off again relationship which will end up making you even more confused and frustrated. Use the right bait, there are more fish out there. You'll catch the right one....Throw that one back and just be friends.
2006-06-28 11:21:56 · answer #3 · answered by AC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how much you value his friendship. If you really like him like that then go for it. Either way I would keep the necklace, he gave that to you as a present whether it was out of friendship or love. Be honest with yourself and ask him to be honest with you
2006-06-28 11:21:00 · answer #4 · answered by Miss C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he doesn't want to admit to YOUR friend that it's really you he wants, therefore he's using his ex as a scapegoat. He's telling HIS friend that he can imagine himself with you till the end of time. I'd believe his friend! Talk to him....tell him how you feel! It certainly can't hurt! He might actually be thrilled that you made the first move!!!
2006-06-28 11:21:38 · answer #5 · answered by trueblond195 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not see him in that way, I would be honest with him and tell him exactly how and why you feel that way. he's your best friend, Right? So, you should have no problem with being open. maybe you are getting wrong information!! The only way to know is to ask him yourself. Good Luck, and I hope things turn out the way you want them to.
2006-06-28 11:19:48 · answer #6 · answered by Elizabeth P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is playing games. I would give him the necklace back and tell him when he figures everything out to call you. You deserve someone who can be straight forward and not run you in circles.
2006-06-28 11:19:32 · answer #7 · answered by C H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say, if you like him and want to give a relationship a shot, then come right out and ask him if he wants to try also. The best relationships start with a friendship foundation..so I say go for it! Good luck girl!
2006-06-28 11:19:00 · answer #8 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel the same way, ask him out! Don't give the necklace back untill you both know how you feel.
2006-06-28 11:19:54 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him does he want to date you. If he says yes, then okay. If he says no, give the necklace back. Don't make it any more complicated than it really is.
2006-06-28 11:19:02 · answer #10 · answered by africanrose23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋