chating is good ... but she is in adiffrent country i visited her .. we have a lot of fun .. i return back . she txt me saying she is prignant ... i felt happy why i dont know ... any why after she make the test she found that it is not me ... so im still taking care of her and her baby finencialy from far away . what should i do ?
2006-06-28 11:11:53 · 15 answers · asked by david p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stop taking care of the baby---she is using you!
2006-06-28 11:14:33 · answer #1 · answered by destine4_69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! Chatting is fine, Got to be very care full these days I wish I, knew How old you are??? But, You know?, The Baby is NOT yours and, you do not live around her, How do you really know this girl isn't out tonight with someone else ? and them helping her too. Something must be clicking for you?For you still be taking care of her and, the child. Most men take off. and, not Give a S_ _ t... and, Never have another thought about the child? Why have you not moved to be with her~ OR~ Her move to be closer to you? Have the two of you talked about moving to be closer ? Have you been back to see her and the child? You must have a heart of gold, to know the child is not yours and still be there. There is a few things to think about...!
I am a Mother of a 23 year old. I didn't have No-One to help me for the first 5 years. and never heard from my son's father. I never ask for a dime, from his father.He always knew, How to get a hold of me.Just for our son's sake... Then One day out of the BLUE He called, and ask if he could come see his son. on his 5 th birthday, Of course it blue me away. I said yes, and told him, His son is getting older each day, and needs both him and I even if we are NOT together... My son always knew his father was and had pic. of his father hanging in his bedroom. Yes, He did come to see him. and, We ended up getting married, Our son was 8. Now after being married for 15 years. our job together is now over with. and going though a DIVORCE....... anyway! What you should do, It's up to the both of you. Does the child think your Daddy ? Think these things over
and ~NOT~ put the child in the middle, The child has nothing to do with this. If it's not yours. How does this she fell about you?
and How do you really feel about her.? Just the two of you, needs to think... Then seat down and Talk but, Leave the child out of this. and decide what you both what!!!!!!!!!!!! out of life? eather make it or don't......... but, Don't let this go much further
sounds like your driving your self NUTS... on what to do
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Hope this helps you...........
2006-06-28 12:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by Nancy D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop! This girl is taking complete advantage of you. There is no reason whatsoever that you should be supporting her and her child. Let her find out who the real father is, if she doesn't already know, and let him take over the financial responsibility. She may have been pregnant when she met you. She may have been out looking for someone to support her. There are lots of crazies on here......even if she seems nice, that doesn't necessarily mean that she is!!
2006-06-28 11:17:59 · answer #3 · answered by trueblond195 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you that desperate? Stop being such an idiot. She is obviously using you in anyway she can. Try to go out and get a LIFE!!
2006-06-28 11:25:16 · answer #4 · answered by Wussupp!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off learn to use spell check, if the baby is not yours it's not your responsibility. My suggestion is to get out of this long distance relationship.
2006-06-28 11:15:55 · answer #5 · answered by Backwoods Barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop taking care of her. sounds like she knew of her condition when your trip to visit was arranged. Just my opinion. best wishes.
2006-06-28 11:16:28 · answer #6 · answered by 4mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop lying on the internet.
2006-06-28 11:14:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...we'll if it's not your baby, you have no legal obligations. You have to decide if you want to adopt the baby or not.
2006-06-28 11:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAN THATS MESSED UP ITS NOT UR PLACE TO TAKE CARE OF HER AND HER BABY BUT IT U REALY CARE FOR HER YOULL GO WERE SHE IS AND HELP HER IT THATS WHAT YOU WANNA DO BUT IT U DONT THINK ITS RIGHT THEN DONT!!!!
2006-06-28 11:16:06 · answer #9 · answered by slick_chik316 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you kidding? Find someone who would have your baby and be responsible financially.
2006-06-28 11:14:36 · answer #10 · answered by Sunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋